On June 15, my sister’s beautiful memorial was attended by more than 50 people and was held in the same place in downtown Atlanta where she and Neal celebrated their marriage after the ceremony in 2017. Among the guests were two of Mary’s oldest friends from Mary’s high school years – Sue and Tracy, who had flown in Fort Lauderdale.
Her sons -Ashton, Avery, and Ardon – are married or engaged to three remarkable women – Kerri, Krista, and Ceilidih and they arranged all the details that afternoon and did a fabulous job.
All six of them spoke and so did Neil’s daughter, Casey. Megan and I spoke and Neal did as well, of course. All the talks were deeply moving and emotional and really communicated the impact Mary had on their lives.
Kerri also put together A beautiful video of Mary’s life that was shown at the end. But when we first entered the room this image was on the screen (a bit blurred here, I snapped it from the video) and I took one look at it and thought, Who is that? She looks so regal!
I guess we never know how someone we love impacts the lives of others until they’re gone. I certainly learned the depth and breadth of Mary’s impact. I consider myself very fortunate that we were born sisters this time around.
So sorry for the loss of your beautiful sister. You were truly blessed to have such a sister in your life. She is part of you and she will always be in your heart.
Absolutely, Caren. But like I said at her memorial – I’m the oldest. I was supposed to die first!
She will forever be in your heart and mind . Her spirit will live on in the hearts and minds of all who were fortunate to cross her path .
So true, Barbie.
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. How beautiful she was! I know it’s not much comfort when a loved one is no longer physically there, but the memories are precious and sustaining. I and Christine send you our thoughts and good wishes.
Thanks so much Lauren and Christine. I’m eager for more spirit synchros.