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A new episode of The Mystical Underground is live! “Trish MacGregor: Star Power For February 2022”:
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This intriguing spirit contact story comes from a long-time blogging friend, Judi Hertling. I think she was one of the first people who commented on our blog on synchronicity when it began in February 2009. She had worked with Robert Moss in his dreaming studies and has used synchronicity in her life for years.
A couple weeks into the new year, I received this email from her:
Hi Trish,
Hope you’re well and happy, and surviving these crazy times.
I’m sad to write that my sister, Jean, whom I was very close to, passed away in August. The reason I tell you this is a week after her funeral, her husband had a visitation from my sister – he said he saw her very clearly standing in their bedroom next to the bed and she was dressed all in red. Weeks later, he saw her again and this time she was dressed all in white.
His daughter-in-law, who knew nothing of this, told him a few weeks before Christmas that after my sister died she had seen her. My brother-in-law asked what she had been wearing and was told that she saw Jean dressed all in red.
I’ve researched and can find nothing in regard to seeing a spirit dressed in red and then appearing later in white. Have you come across this at all? On a synchro level Jean was taken into hospital unexpectedly on our Mom’s birthday, and passed on our Dad’s birthday a few weeks later at home. As an aside, red was one of my sisters least favorite colours.
Hugs,
Judi
I told her that I didn’t know of any spirit contact where the spirit was dressed in red. In fact, in most the experiences we’ve researched, mention of clothing and its color is rare. ,Even if red wasn’t Jean’s favorite color, maybe she used that color to attract the attention of the people to whom she was appearing. It’s hard to ignore a red.
I also said that the synchronicities involved in her sister’s death are stunning: she was taken unexpectedly to the hospital on their mother’s birthday and passed on their dad’s birthday. The odds?
The tragic and all too common element in her sister’s death during this pandemic, was that she Judi lives in Canada and her sister lived in the UK and Judi couldn’t travel there. As Judi said, “…not seeing my sister was awful and left me feeling helpless and emotionally raw. But then so many people have lost loved ones to Covid without getting to see their loved ones, so I have compassion and understanding for those families. My sister had cancer, it was very aggressive and very fast from diagnosis to her passing was only a few weeks. So unexpected.
“But in regard to the visitation and the color red. Have you read the book Mary Magdalene Revealed by Meggan Watterson? She is a Theologian and has a Master of Divinity from Harvard and Columbia. Is it possible do you think that with my sisters deep religious faith that the two could be connected?
“Okay, I’m probably grasping here right? What do you think? And yes you can post – it may bring comfort to others who may have lost a family member.”
When we attempt to decipher the meaning of a synchronicity or spirit contact experience, we look into and consider every possibility. It’s all fair game.
Your sister in red? Sure, why not? The last time I “saw” my parents, my mother was laughing and directing people into a local theater. There was no sign of the Alzheimer’s that she’d had the last 8-10 years of her life. She’d died at 83 of pneumonia, a complication from the disintegration of her left hip and her dementia. In my vision was looked to be in her late 30s or early 40s, in the full beauty of her life. At one point in that vision, she waved at someone and my dad joined her. He had Parkinson’s in the last years of his life, was in a wheelchair, and died about a month short of his 92 birthday. But in this vision, he was young and vibrant – no walker or wheelchair this time – and looked happy.
When they realized I could see them, they faded away.
A skeptic would tell me I imagined it. A skeptic would tell Judi and her relatives that it was all imagined. But I’ve come to realize that skeptics are telling us to deny the reality of our own experiences, to deny that emotional gut punch you feel when this happens. And so often, that gut feeling is what we know to be true.
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A new episode of The Mystical Underground is live! “Sharon Rawlette: Mysteries Of Consciousness”:
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Sharon Rawlette, is a writer and philosopher fascinated by coincidences: those strange, enigmatic experiences that are so often personally meaningful and yet push the boundaries of what we consider scientifically possible. Her May 2019 book The Source and Significance of Coincidences presents a wealth of evidence concerning the statistical significance of coincidences, their range of probable causes, and how we can best interpret their implications for our lives. She also writes about coincidences on the Psychology Today blog, Mysteries of Consciousness, and has presented some of my most recent research at the Division of Perceptual Studies (DOPS) at the University of Virginia School of Medicine.
She also came in 3rd place in the Robert Bigelow essay contest to prove that consciousness survives death.
We’ve all heard stories of deceased friends or family members greeting a new arrival to the afterlife. The stories typically come from people who have had near-death experiences and were told it wasn’t their time yet. But apparently deceased loved ones sometimes visit us in our everyday lives and tell us that it’s our time to leave this life.
That’s the case with the following story which appeared in by Sharon Hewitt Rawlette’s 25,000-word essay, Beyond Death: The Best Evidence for Survival of Human Consciousness. The essay was entered into the Bigelow Institute’s contest for proof that life continues after death, and Sharon won $50,000 for her entry. At this writing, we’re looking forward to interviewing Sharon for The Mystical Underground podcast in a few days.
Here’s one of the stories she includes that suggests that our deceased loved ones can cross into our world and let us know we’ll join them soon.
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As we’ve seen, one type of new, verifiable information that can be provided by an apparition is that the person appearing is recently deceased, as well as the manner in which they died. But sometimes the information provided is about someone other than the one doing the appearing. For instance, a widower named Gary confided in researcher Dianne Arcangel that he was starting to have a lot of vivid after-death encounters. He was puzzled in particular by something that had happened while he was washing his car in preparation for trading it in.
He told Arcangel, “I saw my wife standing there as plain as day. She said, ‘Don’t bother. Just enjoy your family and friends because you’ll be with me soon.’” Gary was in great health and actually starting to enjoy life again, so he didn’t know what to make of his wife’s comment. Nevertheless, only hours after Gary told her this story, Arcangel got a call from Gary’s work informing her he’d just been killed in a car accident.
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I thought it was interesting that his wife told him not to bother washing the car, which not only suggests that she knew he would die soon, but also possibly that she knew he would die in a car wreck.
Throughout the years of writing about synchronicity, we’ve heard from a number of people who have experienced what I call anomalistic weirdness. The experience usually changes their idea of what’s possible, often alters the course of their lives, and becomes a memory as indelible as India ink.
One January night in 2019, Joe Killian encountered what he believed to be an alien being in the parking lot of a restaurant.
In 2012, Canadian Charles Fontaine witnessed a UFO in his backyard and experienced a cascade of synchronicities related to that experience that we wrote about in our book Aliens in the Backyard: UFO Encounters, Abductions and Synchronicity. During this strange time in his life, Charles had an encounter while sitting in his car outside a grocery store, as a tall, ant-like creature came right toward him.
Joe says his experience left his questioning everything he thought he knew about the nature of reality. It took Charles nearly six years to recover from his experience.
Several years ago in the Florida Keys, Priscilla of Pembroke Pines drove through a dense fog and moved forward in time.
Her experience was eerily similar to that of Bruce Gernon, who in 1970 was flying his Cessna back to South Florida from Andros Island in the Bahamas and was surrounded by “electronic fog,” and moved forward in time. Bruce and Rob have written two books about the experience – The Fog and Beyond the Bermuda Triangle and Bruce has appeared on dozens of TV shows to talk about what happened that day.
In 1964, John Murphy was stationed aboard a U.S. Coast Guard cutter that docked near Pennos Wharf near St. George Bermuda and experienced the inexplicable – a kind of time travel love story. He believes he walked 300 years into the past with a young woman he had just met. Not only did John and Barbara both feel an uncanny sense that they already knew each other, but during a walk they encountered a small 18th century British village with a church dominating the village square where they felt certain they’d lived before. They even recalled their lives as young married couple with children. Yet, when John returned to this location alone two days later, the village was gone. He later learned the village had been wiped out in a hurricane in the late 18th century.
The important thing about these experiences is that the individuals involved recognized that the seemingly impossible had happened to them and it changed them in a fundamental way. John Murphy, who passed away in 2019, spent years looking for Barbara and finally found her. She remembered much of what had happened that night. We recounted his story in our book Beyond Strange. Bruce’s experience – when he was 24 – shaped the rest of his adult life.
Often, when people experience this anomalistic weirdness, they don’t talk about it with others, usually out of fear that they’ll sound nuts. But when Priscilla read about Joe’s experience, she asked us to give Joe her email and now they’ve had several conversations about their respective experiences. Joe says it has helped him wrap his head around what happened to him. Charles Fontaine offered to communicate with Joe as well.
Synchronicity of one kind or another was involved in all of these experiences. I’ve come to think of these types of synchros as mind-blowing and life-altering precisely because they are so beyond strange and prompt us to question the nature of our personal and collective reality.
Is there a difference between coincidence and synchronicity? I think there is a huge difference, but decided to start with the dictionary.
From an online dictionary, coincidence is defined as: a remarkable concurrence of events or circumstances without apparent causal connection.”They met by coincidence.”
From the same online source, synchronicity is defined as: the simultaneous occurrence of events which appear significantly related but have no discernible causal connection. “Such synchronicity is quite staggering.”
Notice the difference. We go from remarkable concurrence of events or circumstances to the simultaneous occurrence of events which appear significantly related…
The difference between those definitions is subtle and easy to miss. In the definition of synchronicity, the 2 significant words are the simultaneous occurrence… with what? Jung defined it better in the introduction he wrote to Richard Wilhelm’s translation of The I Ching. “Synchronicity takes the coincidence of events in space and time as meaning something more than mere chance, namely, a peculiar interdependence of objective events among themselves as well as with the subjective (psychic) states of the observer or observers.”
In other words, there’s an acausal connection between inner and outer states that is meaningful to you, the person who observes or experiences it.
“Wow, what a coincidence!” The next time you hear that, get the details. It’s likely the person experienced a synchronicity. The fact that they noticed indicates it held personal meaning and probably happened recently enough so they connected the dots.
Coincidence is the tidy word for synchronicity, the more acceptable word even though they don’t mean the same thing. Coincidence has a randomness to it that synchronicity does not.
Jung: Synchronicity is an ever present reality for those who have eyes to see.
David Richo: We do not create our destiny; we participate in its unfolding. Synchronicity works as a catalyst toward the working out of that destiny.
Dalai Lama: I am open to the guidance of synchronicity and do not let expectations hinder my path.
A new episode of The Mystical Underground is live! “Jennifer Hough: The Wide Awakening”:
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Jennifer Hough is president of The Wide Awakening, founder of the largest integrative nutrition practice in Canada, and the first mentorship program for complementary entrepreneurs over two decades ago. Jennifer’s main focus is the science of flow in everyday life, which she refers to as ‘applied physics.’ She has mentored doctors, executives, and thought leaders globally. Her passion is to make physics practical after working with mystics, scientists and shamans from eight countries to free herself of her own struggle with chronic fatigue and self-sabotage. She has appeared on numerous podcasts, radio and television shows. The topic she would like to talk about today is How to create a viral movement using applied physics.
Tomorrow, January 14, at 6:41 a.m., Mercury turns retrograde in Capricorn. It happens when the planet that rules communication appears to be moving backward relative to earth. During these retro periods, there tend to be a lot of communication snafus. Cars and computers and anything else with moving parts develop problems. Travel is riddled with abrupt changes, delays. Any contracts signed during a retro will need to be revisited. It’s best to reconsider, revise, and review.
I once signed a contract during a Mercury retro and regretted it the entire duration of the contract. The book’s publication date was pushed back. The editor quit and some other editor took over in her absence.
Don’t list your home for sale during a retrograde, double check appointments, don’t schedule surgery or air travel. Delays are common. People you haven’t seen in years may suddenly reappear in your life, unresolved issues surface. If you do travel during a retro, it’s likely that you’ll return to that place.
This one will be done on February 3, at 11:13 p.m., when Mercury turns direct in Capricorn. Good luck!