WHEN THINGS GO WRONG – WHAT DO YOU FEED THE FIELD?
When things go wrong it’s so easy to get upset or get angry or go into victim mode. But when you do that, you block the energy that can support you. I learned from my PhD studies into synchronicity that at our core all of us are vibrating energy, an energy which is linked to the quantum field – a field with which we are entangled at all moments in our lives, and which is a conduit for synchronicity.
The key is that this quantum energy responds to whatever energy we feed it. If we respond with negativity the field will mirror that back to us, and if we respond positively without blaming then that’s what the field will feed back to us.
Let me give you an example. Last week I travelled to Fiji to facilitate a session for the United Nations. It was a 13-hour journey door to door from Singapore to Fiji, and I arrived at my hotel tired and just wanting to sleep. Imagine my consternation when the receptionist said she said that my name was not on the guest list. My initial emotion was anger and to say in an aggressive tone, “How is that possible, I am the facilitator for the retreat, and I know that my name was submitted to you”.
Then I looked at the woman at the desk who was doing her best to find out what went wrong. My anger response changed; I produced a smile and I thanked her for all that she was doing to help me. Despite her best efforts, she could not find my name, but she reassured me that she was doing her best to find me a room. After a few minutes, she came back to me and said “I am so sorry Dr Merry there has clearly been a mistake, but I have found a good room for you”. She had alerted the head of bookings who actually accompanied me to my new room.
But to my amazement it was not a room, they had upgraded me to a two-bedroom villa.
I have always felt that I was a lucky person, but since completing my PhD and synchronicity studies, I know that it is more than luck – it is an energy field. A positive energy field that we can tap into and that has our back.
When things go wrong the question to ask is “What are you feeding the field?” It’s the kind of life-hack to turn what happens to you into the best possible version of events. I am convinced that by staying positive and creating a positive energy field with the receptionist I turned a “no room” situation into a “2-bed villa” situation. See the pics of my villa above.
When things go wrong – what do you feed the field?
Philip will be on our podcast tomorrow to talk about this quantum field and synchronicity!
