One of our truly messy bookshelves
Our book Sensing the Future, A Field Guide to Precognition, will be published on January 3, 2017. As part of our publicity for the book, we’ve been writing to various authors who books have contributed to our knowledge, whose books we enjoy, asking if we can send them a PDF of the book in early August. If they enjoy the book, we would be delighted to have them blurb it.
Initially, the publisher was going to provide just an excerpt from the book, which is what we said in our email to Robert Moss, whose books on dreaming , oracles, and synchronicity are terrific. He responded quickly:
Dear Trish and Rob
I don’t “blurb” books (such an ugly word) on the basis of excerpts. Send me the whole book – by pdf if you like – and I’ll consider writing an endorsement, but can’t promise to get to this for a while.
bright blessings
The publisher agreed to send a full PDF of the book after I forwarded Moss’s email. And we used the word “endorsement” from then on. Rosemary Guiley, author of the Djinn and co-author of a book with George Noory, Talking to the Dead – also responded quickly. I loved DJinn and Rob is enjoying Talking to the Dead, so this email was gratifying – and gracious.
Hi Trish
Congratulations! I will take a look at it. You can email it to me at…
We also contacted Rupert Sheldrake. Ever since reading his Presence of the Past in the late 1980s, we have been big fans of everything he writes. He’s a British biologist, a visionary A few years back, TED talks banned his talk from you tube.
Nature magazine called his work “infuriating…the best candidate for burning there has been for many years.”
Our kind of guy, for sure. The initial response to our request was answered by his research person, Pam:
Dear Trish and Rob,
Thank you for your kind email enquiry, which I will pass onto Rupert Sheldrake. Your books sounds very interesting. Although I need to mention Rupert is completely inundated at the moment and never endorses books he hasn’t read. Your book is on a subject Rupert has a lot of interest in but he is awash with tottering piles of unread books. Good luck with yours. Best wishes
I felt this was a fairly positive response and replied that a PDF of the book would be available in early August and that if Mr. Sheldrake had worked his way through his pile of books by then, I would be glad to send him a PDF. The response to this email was from Sheldrake himself and kind of blew us away:
Dear Rob and Trish,
Thanks for your email and offer of sending the PDF of your book in due course. As Pam says it’s very unlikely I’d be able to read it, and I never endorse books I haven’t actually read. However I would of course be interested to look through it given that it’s close to some of my own interests.
Best wishes,
Rupert Sheldrake
Wow! Sheldrake isn’t just brilliant, he’s a nice guy. He’s giving himself an out in the event that he hates the book, and that’s only fair. Now compare these gracious responses from Guilley, Moss, and Sheldrake, with the complete antithesis, from a man whose books we have been buying since 1994:
As a general rule I tend to support books that either refer to my work or are sufficiently close to my interests to command my attention. I do get a lot of requests from people seeking endorsements to do this; almost every time I speak at a different venue, someone comes up and tries to either hand me a book or make a request to have me read his or her book. Before I consider even reading anyone’s book, I need to know the following:
Who is publishing the book and where, what countries is it being published in? In one page (under 700 words) what is in your book that has not be said or written about before? In brief, what is new in your book?
Do you reference my work in any way other than a footnote or in the bibliography? If so, I need to see what you have written about my work.
I ask about (1) because I do not tend to support self-published books. I will make exceptions, but not often. I expect a book to have legs of its own and not depend on my endorsement to make it in the marketplace. My endorsement means a lot to me and I don’t use it unless I really know the work and the author well enough and I believe in the work.
I ask about (2) because I really don’t have time to read what people send me and I need to see that the writer has really done his or her homework and knows the field well enough to reference other people’s works and writes well enough, by providing me a short summary of what is new in his or her book, to deserve my full attention.
I ask about (3) to see if the field the writer has written about is one that I have written about and have knowledge about. If the writer has actually read any of my works and indicates that he or she has and has used my ideas in a new or original way, it goes a long way to having me support the book, even if the writer disagrees with me.
In brief I tend to support works that really deserve my full support because of my true interests and not just my name.
Seriously, dude? I need to write a college term paper justifying my request? I wrote him back and answered his queries in less than the 700 words he had stipulated. His response was odd:
Could you please let me see where and how you reference my work in any way other than a footnote or in the bibliography? I need to see what you have written about my work. After I see this I’ll consider looking at a pdf of your book. OK?
I’m not sure what contributes to such an inflated ego, but Rob and I have decided to delete any reference to this author in our book. And it’s unlikely that I’ll buy one of his books from this point forward.
I love Sheldarakes work, his book the Science Delusion is a favourite written in response to Dawkins The God Delusion. May your book do well & I am sure it will be well endorsed!
I have the greatest respect for Rupert Sheldrake, who has the courage to “walk between the worlds” so to speak and keep on talking about it. Funny response from the guy with the big ego!
Sutphen lives in California with his FIFTH wife, Roberta. His first wife was angelic; very gentle and compassionate and had an immense depth of spiritual awareness. She literally “shone”, her light was so bright. I met her. In his initial book, YOU WERE BORN AGAIN TO BE TOGETHER, he wrote that his then-wife (first one) was his “forever soulmate”. Guess he has a harem of forever soulmates. He is 79 years old and although very knowledgeable in metaphysical material, his energy is quite dark…….a deep maroon color that is almost black, indicating that he is driven by a need for money and more money and all things material. I once heard him say that “as long as these books of mine sell, I’ll keep writing for the fools who buy them”. Yep. His exact words. I was so disappointed and shocked, although I admit YOU WERE BORN AGAIN TO BE TOGETHER remains a classic in the genre. Too bad he went rogue in his personal life. Talks the talk but doesn’t walk the walk. Such a shame.
Under the circumstances, I would post the name of that author. That response from the writer is simply among the most self-aggrandizing, self-oriented, and offensive I’ve ever seen, and I’ve seen many. I’d like to know who it is because I would not support his, (I assume it’s a “him”), work or spend my book pennies to go into his pocket. A prolific author in the earlier years of the metaphysical genre texts, Dick Sutphen was just such a jerk as this one. In person, he is even worse. I attended one of his week-end seminars then returned home and took his books to a dumpster. His language is consistently peppered with vulgarity and the F-bomb not only in his later books, but also in his on-stage “lectures”. When questioned about it, he stated he uses those words for their impact, yet presents himself as a “highly evolved spiritual Being”. I’m far from being a prude and imo using such nasty language occasionally is not a problem. But in virtually every other sentence or paragraph? Nope. Not for me. He’s in the same egomaniacal club as Trump, and this author you contacted sounds like he is a member there, as well.
Posting his name isn’t worth my time!
Maybe Dick Sutphen should have been in the movie ‘What the Bleep!’ the way he lectures? 🙂
Where IS Sutphen these days?!
Here is his Facebook page – https://www.facebook.com/dicksutphen/
He and his wife have a radio show and I just started listening to his latest one that sounds intriguing –
“Spiritual Concepts” Radio Show DICK & ROBERTA SUTPHEN will talk with the Psychic Lawyer, Mark Anthony. Wed, May 27 @ 10 AM Mountain time (same as California time during DST.) Mark is a renowned medium and attorney who will talk about the evidence that deceased loved ones can communicate with us. He’ll talk about his new book “EVIDENCE OF ETERNITY. Link: https://tobtr.com/s/7502381
Thanks for the updates. Is this wife #5? 6?
I don’t know that much about him, but I used to own a few of his hypno tapes years ago. But I must say this show I’m listen to now is interesting.
I’ll check it out. Thanks for the info!
It’s funny you reference Nature magazine calling Rupert’s work “infuriating…the best candidate for burning there has been for many years”, as I just finished reading the late Lyall Watson’s book ‘Dark Nature’ last night where in the last chapters of that book Lyall was signing the praises of Rupert’s work and especially his “morphic field” theory.
You can buy ‘Dark Nature’ on Kindle at Amazon for $3.27, down from $20 at the moment. I love Lyall’s book and this one was no exception.
https://www.amazon.com/Dark-Nature-Natural-History-Evil-ebook/dp/B00GMOERBG/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1468225406&sr=1-1&keywords=dark+nature+lyall+watson
I’m trying to figure out who that last author is in the post, but maybe I haven’t heard of them anyway.
Any clues? 🙂
I sent you an email, Daz.