Who Is This Guy?

Posted on December 22, 2011 by Trish and Rob

He looks like one of the nerdy guys in your high school or college yearbook,  right? You know the type I mean. This is the guy who sits alone in the back of the cafeteria during lunch, thumbing through a fat book on Greek mythology or advanced calculus. But with this particular nerd, the book was probably something along the lines of business or issues management strategy.

Never heard that last term? Well, I hadn’t, either, until I Googled, Who is Grover Norquist?    He refers to himself as an issues management strategist. To me, that’s fancy speak for someone who manipulates how people think about issues. You know, political and social issues that actually impact people’s lives.

Norquist has never been elected to a public office. Yet, he managed to convince 238 house members, 41 senators, 13 governors, and 1,249 state legislators to sign a pledge that they would oppose all tax increases. He was able to do this, apparently, because his organization, Americans for Tax Reform – ATR – has millions of members who – oh shudder, be afraid – might vote you out of office if you disobey the pledge. And he’ll do that by galvanizing, you know, the loyal right wing troops.

When I look at this guy’s photo, when I hear him speak on TV, I cringe. I feel soiled. This is the man, after all, who says that allowing the Bush tax cuts to expire in 2012, as they’re slated to do, is the equivalent of raising taxes. Yet, the $4 trillion that would be raised as a result would help to cut the deficit and save the social programs like Medicaid, Medicare and Social Security from severe cutbacks. Programs that seniors and the poor depend on.

As one author put it in the Huffington Post, “Master Norquist, you see, says that allowing said cuts to expire as promised is raising taxes, and he’s willing to demolish any Republican who says otherwise. The facts apparently have no place in this matter, so it’s a very small step to say — as many are right now — that Master Nordquist and his friends at Koch Industries are deliberately destroying the Republican Party — not to mention the nation…”

When the Super Committee met to discuss how to cut $1.5 trillion from the federal budget, they failed to reach any consensus. As Senator John Kerry, a member of the committee said,  “But unfortunately, this thing about the Bush tax cuts and the pledge to Grover Norquist keeps coming up. Grover Norquist has been the 13th member of this committee without being there. I can’t tell you how many times we hear about ‘the pledge, the pledge.”

What about the pledge all members of Congress take to uphold the constitution? If so many members of Congress are adhering to a pledge they made to a guy who was never elected, then they apparently don’t give a damn about we, the people.  You know, the people who are losing homes and jobs, the 99 percent for whom the so-called American dream is fading. Norquist exemplifies everything that’s wrong with government.

There’s obviously no sychro here. But with the world perched at the edge of some sort of paradigm shift,  it seems important to pinpoint some of the individuals in the dying paradigm who fight to maintain a status quo that serves the few at the expense of the many.

 

 

 

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Science & Synchros Part 2

Posted on December 21, 2011 by Trish and Rob

 

This post is a follow-up from yesterday’s in which we took a look at the new issue of Psychiatric Annals, which is devoted to synchronicity. We commented on the first two articles. Now we’ll move on the other two.

We’ll start with  Exploration of Anomalous Mind-Matter Correspondences.

This study is interesting, especially since it focuses on the law of attraction and unexpected money. Here’s how it begins.

“The study of unexpected money, conducted as part of a dissertation project,  follows the discussion in the online edition of Psychiatric Annals  of using experimental methods to determine whether participants under controlled conditions can apply intention to attract “unexpected” money.

So the jargon term in this study moves from WCS-2 (Weird Coincidences Scale-2), to the appropriate and clever acronym of SUM (Seeking Unexpected Money).  Here’s how it works.

“The study incorporated methodologies from psi laboratory experiments, prayer studies, and the social sciences to explore whether anomalous mind-matter correspondences (AMMCs) happen more frequently to people who have been instructed to engage in intentional activities. It resembled the psi studies in that it employed a true experimental design: Randomized groups, each blind to the activities of the other groups, received differing instructions to perform a new task. Yet, it differed from these studies in that the new task — to be attentive to receipts of unexpected money — carried a priori meaning for the participants.”

Here’s the definition of unexpected money.

“Money that comes into your hands surprisingly and suddenly (‘out of the blue’), without your earning it, soliciting it, specifically seeking it out, or otherwise expecting it.” Examples of unexpected-money events included finding cash on the street, inheriting money unexpectedly, winning money in a lottery or contest, receiving money through an unexpected credit or class action settlement. Even windfall capital gains, wage increases, new work, or return of monies borrowed were considered valid events if there was some aspect to their receipt that felt highly out of the ordinary.”

(Interestingly, the day I wrote this post, we received two checks totalling $36 from a class action settlement against American Express. It was definitely unexpected money. Too bad is wasn’t more!)

And what were the results of the study? It looks like the ol’ trickster stepped into this one, which involved 64 people.  The control group apparently did better at gaining unexpected money than the ones applying intention.

The article summarized: “The fact that the controls prevailed seems to indicate that the act of paying attention was enough, and that performing any additional intentional activities actually deterred participants from achieving the desired outcome. These findings support those from prayer studies and PK experiments,  which have discovered that the best results often are achieved when participants are not applying rigorous intentionality to the psi task.”

We’re glad that some people got unexpected money. Certainly, the control group did not expect it!

The final study is called  Measurement of Synchronicity in a Clinical Context. It’s about whether or not a synchronicity can be generated under controlled conditions rather than happening unpredictably.

The study made use of divination, specifically, the I Ching, the book of changes. References to Jung and his use of the I Ching  were at the heart of the study.

“Jung considered synchronicity to be the I Ching’s basic mode of operation. In light of his lifelong use of the book and beliefs about its underlying process, researchers such as Lance Storm question why Jung never undertook empirical studies with the instrument. Nevertheless, Jung found the uncanny results he received when consulting the I Ching for his personal questions intriguing, referring to the book’s content as a ‘catalog of archetypal information.'”

The author notes: “This study hypothesized that when the I Ching is employed in a psychotherapy-like context, sufficient contingent conditions will be present to cause the occurrence of a synchronicity.”

While Jung believed that the I Ching and other divination systems are examples of synchronicity, he also thought that synchronicity cannot be “caused,” or at least not caused by the principles of modern science.  That’s why he called it an “acausal connecting principle.”

I might be over simplifying the results, but it appears that the study found that I Ching readings were accurate only about one out of three times. I’m not sure how such a conclusion was made since I Ching readings are highly subjective. One person might find a reading highly accurate while another person in a similar situation might find the same reading questionable or worthless.

As the author noted: “A person’s level of psychological insight is also thought to contribute to his or her recognizing and extracting relevant meaning from a synchronistic occurrence.”

One Jungian scholar  stated, “Jung maintained that to use the I Ching effectively one must possess considerable psychological insight, just as such insight must also be possessed to accurately interpret the full meaning of any synchronistic pattern.”

The study ended, as the others in this issue of Psychiatric Annals, saying that more research was needed. I think that’s a boiler plate ending for most studies. I’ve never read one that concluded by saying no more studies on this subject are needed. 😉

 

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Coincidence Studies

Posted on December 20, 2011 by Trish and Rob

Psychiatric Annals introduces their December 2011 issue this way:

“Coincidences are common to us all. This issue explores the possibility of a scientific origin for these events and suggests psychiatry has a role to play in the creation of a new field of study: Coincidence Studies.”

The four articles in the issue are entitled:

Synchronicity: Coincidence Detection and Meaningful Life Events

 An Initial Study of Extreme, Measurable Forms of Synchronicity

 Exploration of Anomalous Mind-Matter Correspondences

 Measurement of Synchronicity in a Clinical Context

It’s good to see the scientific community taking a serious look at synchronicity, rather than simply labeling it ‘magical thinking’ – read non-scientific thinking.  Yet, such studies clearly remain outside mainstream science. I can just imagine the skeptic forums puzzling over the topic of coincidence studies.

The first article starts out this way:

“Early therapeutic use of coincidences is described by Carl Jung, who coined the term ‘synchronicity,’ referring to the low-probability co-occurrence of two different events in a narrow window of time, perceived as striking for the individual experiencing it. 1 It is now accepted that, for coincidences to qualify as a synchronicity, they have to be meaningful, and help one’s individuation.”

The last sentence is an important one in therapeutic terms. It suggests that synchronicities are guideposts for healing, a positive factor for mental, emotional and spiritual development.

The scientific jargon that’s used is interesting and a bit humorous. The first article repeatedly refers to WCS-2 in their data analysis. What is it? Weird Coincidence Scale. We wonder what happened to WCS-1!

The first study looks at the relationship between age and synchronicity – something that we had never considered as a factor. But, according to the study, it is. The older you are the more likely you are to accept synchronicity.

“Age and probability/chance were negatively related; as age increases, agreement with the statement, “I believe coincidences can be explained by the laws or probability of chance” tends to decrease. Considering this was the only finding regarding age and coincidence detection, replication studies with larger, more representative samples are needed to clarify the true relationship.”

Interestingly, the second study also uses the Weird Coincidence Scale-2. We assume that was not a synchronicity, but part of a coordinated effort to measure coincidence in a similar manner.

What I like about the second study was that it actually included an example of a synchronicity – a complex one involving two scholars simultaneously pondering the importance of footnotes. The story is followed by a detailed analysis of the synchro. To me, it was a synchronicity that only an academic could fully appreciate. Someone not familiar with synchronicity reading this study would probably scratch his or her head and wonder what it was all about.

That’s the problem with academic studies of meaningful coincidence. They tend to make a mysterious  subject even more complicated and more confusing. But that’s my non-scholarly take. Trish feels about the same.

Yet, it’s interesting to peruse these studies, and it’s potentially important for our advancement if the scientific world accepts synchronicity as a reality. We’ll take a look at the last two studies tomorrow.

 

 

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The Fire

Posted on December 19, 2011 by Trish and Rob

During the holidays last year, we bought a fire pit at Home Depot that was on sale – half price, $45. It was a perfect fit for an area in the front of our house, a small sheltered three-sided courtyard to the right of the front door. We used it a lot in December, which was particularly cold. On the night of a lunar eclipse last December, in fact, we got up around three that morning, a friend of Megan’s brought over a telescope, we started a fire, and took turns  peering through the telescope, watching the moon turn dark.

This December, the weather has been beautiful – high 70s or in the low 80s during the day,  high 60s at night.  Beautiful, but not cool enough to light fire. Tonight, though, the temp dropped into the low 60s, so Rob started a fire in the pit, and we sat outside warming our feet, the dogs and cats gathering around. Yes, okay, low sixties is a cold front for us (I can hear the laughter now), but there is something wonderfully primal about fire. It brings the muse out of hiding, triggers ideas and conversation. We talked about various ideas that are brewing for books, a game app, and a divination system we’ve been playing around with for several weeks.

We realized that part of this divination system involves the elements – air, water, earth – and fire. But while we were discussing what these elements meant in terms of the divination system, we realized the fifth element in this scheme of things is metal, the alchemist’s tool, turning metal into gold, a symbol for personal transformation.

As we approach 2012, personal transformation seems to be key. Even though we don’t buy into the doomsayer notion that the world will end on December 21, 2012, we do feel that the collective consciousness is shifting, that a new paradigm is being born.  It hasn’t reached a tipping point yet, but when it does, there will be no turning back.

As I peered into the fire, I could see elements of this shift that are already underway. According to NOAA – National  Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration- the combined global land and ocean average surface temperature was the 12th warmest on record. The September – November worldwide land surface temperature was 0.87°C (1.57°F) above the 20th century average, the seventh warmest such period on record.  The January – November worldwide land surface temperature was 0.84°C (1.51°F) above the 20th century average — the seventh warmest such period on record.

Take a look at this  map and it’s obvious the planet is in flux, and not necessarily in a positive way for humanity. And it’s not just the erratic weather. It’s the wars, politics, the haves and the have nots, all the issues the Occupy movement has pinpointed. Tonight on 60 Minutes, for example, we watched a really heartbreaking segment on what’s happened to neighborhoods in Ohio that were hit hard by the housing meltdown.

One Ohio city has so many abandoned homes – where owners have simply walked away because their mortgages were underwater – that the city is now demolishing them. The banks evict the owners, then the properties just sit there, the places falling apart as vandals move in and strip aluminum sidings, pipes, even the kitchen sinks.  And this is happening all over the U.S. In our neighborhood of perhaps 35 homes, there are several that have been abandoned for months, doors hanging by hinges, windows broken, overgrown yards a paradise for rats, and the banks do nothing. The houses and the properties surrender to entropy.

Institutions we took for granted ten years ago are in chaos. Countries are in financial meltdowns that threaten the world economy. Hatred, racism, and religious extremism are on the rise. An entire generation is being shortchanged as unemployment rises. Just recently a study in the U.S. found that one in two Americas are either poor or underpaid. Fifty percent.

And yet.  We each live within our own little worlds and aren’t impacted by this all at once. Here and there, we take hits, we recognize the abrupt and irrevocable changes, and we adapt.  We focus, create the opportunities we need, and move forward. Our daughter, for instance, has been working at a minimum wage job since she graduated from college last June. She has applied for numerous jobs in the field she loves – working with animals – and recently landed an internship at Disney, beating out 600 other applicants.

There are opportunities for personal growth within this paradigm shift. It’s when the law of attraction may work the best. The contrasts are so glaring, so obvious that we know what we don’t want – and do want.

I suspect we’ll be using the fire pit a lot more for brainstorming sessions. No telling what nuggets may emerge.

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Mysterious Object

Posted on December 18, 2011 by Trish and Rob

GOES Project Science is a joint project involving  NASA and NOAA – the National Oceanic Atmosphere Administration. Satellite pictures of Earth that are snapped daily can be found here.  Click on any of these to see how the planet looks on a given day. Then take a look at this You Tube video. Anyone have any idea what this could be?

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Jung and Synchronicity

Posted on December 17, 2011 by Trish and Rob

                                                       from Carl Jung’s Red Book

In 7 Secrets of Synchronicity, we talked about how synchronicity often occurs during periods of transitions – a move, marriage or divorce, birth, death. Tonight, I ran across some good ones involving Jung.

I was paging through a biography on Jung by Barbara Hannah- Jung: His Life and Work, a Biographical Memoir.  Hannah was a pupil and close personal friend of Jung’s and a training analyst at the C. G. Jung Institute in Zurich. As she states in her preface, her book isn’t an official biography of Jung, but rather a biographical memoir, “showing his life as it appeared to me.”  She knew that Jung’s children were against anything biographical being written about him; they felt he had said it all in his autobiography, Memories, Dreams, and Reflections.  So Hannah didn’t tell them she was writing the book. But when she had completed it, she gave it to them to read. “They thoroughly disapproved.”

Toward the end of the book, in a chapter called Back to Rhitzome, 1960-1961, the author discusses Jung’s last recorded dream, which he had several nights before his death on June 6, 1961, It was recorded by Ruth Bailey, a woman who worked for Jung, and she gave it to the author.

“He saw a big, round block on stone in a high bare place and on it was inscribed: This shall be a sign unto you of wholeness and oneness.

In the dream, there were “a lot of vessels, pottery vases, on the right ide of a square place.” There were also a “square of trees, al fibrous roots, coming up from the ground and surrounding him. There were gold threads gleaming among the roots.”

Hannah recognized this as a death dream, but thought it was quite beautiful and illustrated his “unity and wholeness,” which were shown to him in the symbol of a round stone. She also felt the pots in the square to the right were meaningful. “In ancient Egypt, some parts of the dismembered corpse of the god Osiris were kept in pots, because it was from these that the resurrection was expected to take place…The old Greeks kept pots in their houses full of wheat seeds. The pots and the soil represented the underworld and the seed the dead waiting for resurrection.”

Jung passed away at 3:45 (interesting time, right? Sequential numbers!) on a Tuesday afternoon, June 6, 1961. Hannah says that just before he died, she went to get her car and found found the battery was completely run down. The car wasn’t old and the battery had never given her any trouble.  “This puzzled me very much at the time; when Ruth telephoned about half an hour later, it seemed quite natural and as if the car had known.”

There were some reports that a thunderstorm had occurred when Jung died, but Hannah points out that the thunderstorm occurred several hours later ( scroll down to Miguel Serrano).

“The lightning struck a tall poplar tree in his garden at the edge of the lake. This is most unusual, for the water attracts the lightning and therefore trees and houses on its banks are usually immune. The tree was not destroyed, only a great deal of its bark was stripped off.”

Miguel Serrano, a Chilean author who developed a friendship with Both Jung and Herman Hesse at the end of their lives, wrote about this in his book, Record of Two  Friendships: “I took it as a sign that Jung had reached the center of universal forces; Nature had responded; it had been moved; there was synchronicity.”

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When I read this story about Hannah’s battery, I was reminded that when our first agent died years ago, I heard about it shortly before I left the house to pick up Megan from school. I was in the pickup line when the car suddenly died. The battery in our car, like the one in Hannah’s, wasn’t old. It really was as if the car knew that the agent’s life had run out. Perhaps dead car batteries are like clocks that stop at the time  a loved one passes on, another archetype of synchronicity.

 

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The Lost Indiana Jones Novel

Posted on December 16, 2011 by Trish and Rob

 

I wrote this story for our Thriller-Chiller blog, but  Trish it migrated over here. I was wondering if there was a synchronicity involved with this post. I couldn’t see one. But then I looked at the departing tolley car in the cover art by Christian Guldager and saw that it was #22. Megan is 22 and soon leaves home for her new job at Disney’s Animal Kingdom. Which just happens to be a short distance from Universal Studios, and the on-going Indiana Jones performance. A stretch, but there it is. 😉

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Every so often I get an e-mail from someone asking if I wrote a novel called Indiana Jones and Staff of Kings. As any avid Indy fan knows, that’s the name of the sixth version of the Indiana Jones computer game. There is no novel by that name. But there was supposed to be one. I know. I wrote it.

It rests on a shelf behind me in manuscript form. Had it been published, it would’ve been my seventh Indiana Jones novel.

The novel was written under contract, it was accepted for publication, and I was paid quite well for it. I was even flown out to LucasFilm in San Francisco to talk about the novel.

Everything seemed to be going quite well until the publisher literally forgot about it. The jargon phrases used for such a mistake go like this: ‘Someone dropped the ball.’ Or, ‘It fell through the crack in the floor.’ No, it wasn’t a ball, it wasn’t a crack. It was rigid thinking by the company execs, and an overworked editor.

You see, the publisher was fixated on the novel coming out the same time as the related computer game. The problem was that LucasFilm changed their game platform and that changed their schedule. No one told the publisher about it. Well, actually I did. A couple of avid Indy bloggers informed me of the changes, which I passed on to the editor. Unfortunately, the message never got through. The editor thought I had it wrong. Certainly, she would be informed on such matters, she implied.

Then the game came out just as the bloggers had said it would, but there was no book accompanying the release. The logical thing, it seemed to me, would be to rush the book into print. Nope. Somehow, the powers-that-be felt the book would not sell well unless it was released precisely at the time the game came out.

That’s what I call rigid thinking. Do people who buy and play computer games buy a related book? Maybe some do. But I think it’s a different audience. If you’re spending money on games, you’re probably not buying books.

So Del Rey lost money on the project, namely because no one ever had an opportunity to buy the book. An Indy fan wrote Howard Roffman, president of the Lucas Licensing, and asked what happened to the book. The response was forwarded to me. ‘Rob MacGregor missed the deadline.’

Oh, yeah. I wrote to Roffman and told him that Del Rey had the completed novel for more than a year before the game came out. He checked on it, wrote me back, and apologized.

From a writer’s point of view, it’s all part of the business. If you get a contract and get paid, what happens to the book is basically none of the writer’s business. It wasn’t the first time I’d encountered a publisher who accepted my work, paid me, then failed to follow through. Years ago, Trish and I wrote for OMNI Magazine and they did the same thing. Repeatedly.

Of course, OMNI doesn’t exist any longer, and I’m thinking that many of the major publishers will fall through that ‘crack in the floor’ themselves…because someone ‘dropped the ball.’

 

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Be the Change Synchro

Posted on December 15, 2011 by Trish and Rob

This synchronicity came from Vicky Watt,  whose blog – Acoustic Wave – covers all sorts of mysterious stuff, including synchronicity. It’s a good one!

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Yesterday – Thursday 24th November – I finally finished a 6-part  ‘Be The Change’ blog series on my own webspace.  It was very late at night and it had taken me all day to create.  Following an initial post a couple of weeks earlier (inspired by your Occupy/Stephen King discussion funnily enough), I had planned to just write a follow-up post with a few bullet points summarizing the  way people might embrace the ‘be the change’ ethos.  Clearly I subconsciously knew that each theme deserved to be a little more fleshed out as I had already stalled the project for many days.   At the same time, I was very keen to complete it all in one day because I’d put it off for so long!  When it was finally complete,  I laughed out loud to my partner, asking what had even compelled me to create the ‘Be The Change’ series?  I joked that few people would even read it!  My blog doesn’t have a very big readership 🙂

Anyway, despite it being very late at night, we had agreed to watch an episode of the American TV comedy drama ‘Castle’ before going to bed.  First, I browsed the other writers on my blog list and saw that Seth Godin had written a new post for Thanks Giving.  The post read…

“A great way to give thanks…for the priveleges we’ve got is to do important work. Your job, your internet access, your education, your role in a civilized society…all of them are a platform, a chance to do art, a way to give back and to honor those that enabled you to get to this point. For every person reading this there are a thousand (literally a thousand) in underpriveleged nations and situations that would love to have your slot. Don’t waste it.”

This small note from Seth Godin to his readers really inspired me.  He was right. The message I took from this for myself is that it didn’t really matter how few people were reading my blog.  I was in a very privileged position and I should use it, wherever possible, to speak my truth, to  to share positive messages.   Isn’t that what it means to be the change?

Finally, just before a long overdue bed time, we cozied up to watch the episode of  ‘Castle’ and as I relaxed into its lighthearted fictional storyline about a crime writer who helps to solve cases, I forgot all about being the change for a while.  Then, at the end of the episode – just before the credits rolled – the woman who plays the part of Castle’s mother, announced that as part of her new career as a life coach, she was hosting

a ‘Be The Change You Wish To See‘ gathering for her social group.

That night, I slept happily, knowing that my efforts had somehow been given a little nod and wink of acknowledgment from the universe.

 

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Like attracts like…with a twist

Posted on December 13, 2011 by Trish and Rob

I have a friend who repeatedly experiences ‘like attracts like’ in a very odd way. He used to be a neighbor, a single guy who lived in the same development years ago. We’ve kept in touch and get frequent updates on his life since he and I go on lengthy early morning bike rides a couple of times a month,  followed by breakfast. We have the biking in common, and he’s a nice enough guy.

However, he’s quite skeptical about the paranormal and always thinks there must be some trick involved. He believes most of it is razzle-dazzle and  doesn’t really comprehend how much of a role these matters play in  my world and Trish’s as well. He thinks it’s just a way that we’ve managed to make a living, a niche in publishing.

So, with that in mind, it’s very interesting to hear about his relationships with women over the years who inevitably are involved in New Age-related matters. His girlfriends have included a psychic, a UFO contactee, a witch, and most recently an acupuncturist – though I’m not sure the latest will develop into a romantic relationship.

Whenever he told us about one of these relationships, we were usually quite interested in meeting his new friend. But soon we started seeing a certain pattern. He was unconsciously drawn to women who re-enforced his beliefs about ‘New Age types.’

The witch was probably the best of them. We liked her, but noticed that she was quite confrontational about her beliefs with people who had misguided ideas about Wiccans. There’s  nothing wrong with that. But she tended to get into conflicts with authority figures, such as bosses, and inevitably she became a ‘victim’ of their ill-informed ways.

The UFO contactee was someone we met once and never cared to see again. She felt she was the selected messenger the aliens had chosen. She was bombastic and sounded utterly ridiculous. If she wasn’t crazy, then the aliens were.

Then there was the psychic. She topped them all. We had heard about her for awhile, but never met her until one evening when we had a party involving several friends who were involved in metaphysical areas. One is a well known past life therapist and author, another is a Hollywood script writer, who is also a talented psychic, an astrologer who is married to a former military remote viewer and author, and a couple of others.

We all got along quite well, but then my friend arrived with the mystery psychic. She sat at one end of the table and every time she spoke, it was the same sort of material that we had heard from our friend’s previous paramours. She had inside information on aliens invading earth and she was the one with the answers. It wasn’t long before everyone else moved away from the table. I got stuck talking to her for quite awhile, and realized that my biking buddy had hit a new low. This one was truly certifiable, and in fact within two weeks she was committed and the relationship ended.

I don’t know much about the acupuncturist, except she lives in Palm Beach and says she’s close to Donald Trump and provides acupuncture at Mar-del-Lago, Trump’s ritzy Palm Beach resort. I really don’t want to meet her.

My friend wants to believe. Yet, repeatedly, he has entered relationships which confirm his doubts.  As I said, like attract like. But in an unusual way.

So, you might wonder, why is he my friend? Probably because he’s not judgmental. He accepts people for what they are. After all, if he were overly critical, he would never have entered such unusual relationships  in the first place. I get along with him. We don’t talk about aliens or the paranormal…or his old girlfriends.  We just talk about guy stuff. Enough said.

Oh, yeah, and his name is Rob.

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Law of Attraction

Posted on December 12, 2011 by Trish and Rob

In celebration of the lunar eclipse – and an early Christmas gift for the family – we bought the virtual workshop in Phoenix that was held on the day of the lunar eclipse, December 10. It was the first Esther Hicks has done since the death of her husband, Jerry, about three weeks ago.

I was curious about how Jerry’s death might impact Esther’s ability to connect with the nonphysical group, Abraham, that she channels.  On a personal level, I was trying to put myself in her shoes. Not only did she lose her spouse of decades, but the man who was  her business and spiritual partner. This workshop was the most powerful I’ve seen, either virtually or physically.

In a nutshell, the Abraham/Hicks premise is that we create our own realities through our emotions, beliefs, and thoughts, which determine our “vibration,” a magnet through which we attract everything in our lives. This premise isn’t new.

Carl Jung, in his introduction to the I Ching, wrote, “like attracts like.” He was discussing why the I Ching, an oracle that uses coins and 64 hexagrams, was able to answer questions. But like attracts like also became the basis of his theory of synchronicity.  Seth, a nonphysical energy channeled by author Jane Roberts, put it more bluntly: You get what you concentrate on…there is no other main rule.

My introduction to these concepts began with the I Ching when I was about 18, and then continued with the Seth material when I was in my twenties. The Seth books were the first channeled books I’d ever read that resonated on an intuitive level. Seth and Jane wrote twenty some odd books before her death in 1984. I read all of them. I even bought the books that contained “the deleted material” – information Seth provided to Jane and her husband, Robert Butts, about her physical ailments, their private lives, their marriage. Some of the deleted material is difficult to read, particularly the stuff that was channeled when she was bedridden for  a year because of her rheumatoid arthritis.

But the messenger can never be confused with the message: that’s what I ultimately took away from the Seth books – and from the virtual Phoenix workshop we watched. And yet, the messenger’s presence is important.

In the 1960s, 70s, and early 80s, when Jane and Seth wrote most of their books, there was no Internet, social media, cell phones, iPad, iPhones, Facebook, blogs, Amazon, Twitter…you get the idea. Jane and her husband worked out of their home in Elmira, New York, holding regular Seth sessions for more than twenty years. To my knowledge, there is only one video in existence of Seth speaking through Jane. Today, of course, there are many websites about the Seth material, but these are not written by Jane Roberts or Seth.

For awhile, Jane held sessions in her home for outsiders and some of these outsiders, who were really young when they attended, are now carrying on her work – Rick Stack, for instance, and Sue Watkins.

Esther Hicks is a whole different ballgame. She and Jerry, when he was alive, embraced every social media venue to promote Abraham’s ideas and products. And there are many products – books, CDs, workshops, a cottage industry.  And yet. There’s Esther herself. When Megan and I attended one of her workshops in person in 2009, I went with the intention of trying to determine if she was in a trance during the entire six hours of the workshop. By the end of the workshop, that point was rendered irrelevant because the message, the philosophy, the core of the material is so inherently positive and resonates for me.

During tonight’s workshop, the impact of Jerry’s transition was apparent. As Abraham said at one point, Jerry’s transition was the next logical step. His overwhelming desire to know and understand had triggered their journey and now his transition gave him the ability to view the larger picture, from a nonphysical perspective.

The best parts of these workshops are the questions that are posed when someone is selected to sit in the “hot seat.” This is like a one on one with Abraham, and never is there any apparent struggle on Esther’s part to answer the questions. She’s always composed, listening intently, and you sense that she’s tuned in to something other than herself, something greater than herself. Now and then, when the person in the hot seat talked about suffering and the great works of art that came from pain, Esther made these very strange sounds, a kind of high pitched shrieking, and then looked off to the side and murmured, “That was Jerry.”

Suffering, apparently, is not the preferred method for creating great works of art, music or literature. But it may be the point where the musician, artist or writer releases  his or her resistance to success, beauty, whatever. Even though Tchaikovsky’s life was one of pain and suffering, when he composed music, he released himself from resistance and the universe flowed through him. Isn’t this process the epitome of creativity? Of synchronicity?  Abraham is quick to say that suffering isn’t necessary to release resistance, that awareness is key.

During the last segment of the workshop, Rob, Megan and I kept relating our  personal experiences to what Abraham was saying,  a sure sign of psychic resonance. And in the end, there really isn’t any other criteria that matters more than what we ourselves feel and know when evaluating information.

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