Nika, Noah: A Love Story

Nika, Noah. See the devil in Nika’s eyes? She’s ready to rock  roll.

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Our daughter, Megan, came home for a visit recently and brought Nika, the dog she adopted when Nika was 6 weeks old. Nika lived with us for about a year and became quite attached to our golden retriever, Noah, who is a couple of years older that she is. They became inseparable. They played together, ate together, slept curled up next to each other,  chased Frisbes together. Nika became the sister Noah didn’t have. At the dog park, Noah often defended Nika against other larger dogs.

Nika loves everyone – human or animal, she’s your friend. And she had a lot of friends at our dog park. There was Thunder, a 12-year-old grumpy German shepherd mix who cuddled with her, barked at her when she was out of line, licked her when needed loving. There was Cody the trickster huskie, who chased off bigger dogs when she was a puppy and always made sure she had an ally. But Noah is definitely her bro and her protector and Megan is certainly her human.

During the time that Megan worked at her internship at Disney, we would get together once a month or so and Nika would go nuts when she saw Megan and would seem sort of sad and depressed once we all separated again.  One night here at the house, Nika cornered a possum in our backyard and the possum was as freaked out as Nika – hissing, baring its teeth. Noah came to Nika’s rescue and the possum – wisely – took off.

In June, Megan’s internship at Disney ended and Nika moved to Orlando with her. During these past months, we’ve gotten together fairly regularly. Nika and Noah are so overjoyed to see each other that at one reunion, Nika leaped out the passenger window of Megan’s car just to get to Noah.  During their most recent reunion, they headed to the dog park together and Nika reconnected with her buddies there, then she and Noah headed out into the park on their own, commiserating, exploring, connected at the heart.

While they were visiting, I woke in the middle of the night and saw Nika and Noah cuddled together on the quilt where he usually sleeps alone.  All was well. I instantly fell back asleep. They looked like this, but on a quilt:

Dogs remember. They form bonds as intricate and intimate as those among humans. Their emotions are as real to them as our emotions are to us. Yes, I’ve been accused before of anthropomorphizing, but my response to those critics is that there’s no such thing. All animals feel and with dogs, perhaps because of their long history with humans, it’s easier to recognize these emotional connections, these memories.

There’s something here for us humans to keep in mind: if we treated each other as Nika and Noah treat each other,  wouldn’t the world be a better place? We would have each other’s backs, we would remember the early love and the forever love and would give each other space to explore the world independently. We would honor each other’s differences and honor the myriad ways we are the same. We would honor the fact that we have come together in the same space and time. We would grasp the spiritual underpinnings.

I’m telling you, my next political vote will be for an individual who loves and understands dogs.  It won’t be Mitt Romney, who  put his dog Shamus on a roof rack  during a trip to Canada.  Really? A roof rack?? In the U.S, alone, there are nearly 80 million dog owners. Why would a single one of them vote for Romney? If a man can’t treat his dog right, what makes you think he would do right by you?

Years ago, one of the things my dad advised was pretty simple and straightforward, as I look at it in hindsight: You want a quick way to see who someone else actually is? Look at how they treat their family – and their pets. And then look at how they act when money is the bottom line. Those things will tell you what you need to know about that person.

I am buoyed at the dog park. Yeah, I know how that sounds. But it happens to be true. Dogs are genuine,we humans are often anything but. We’re trying, though. We’re learning, we’re evolving. Really, we are.

 

 

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High Strangeness

High strangeness: any event or experience related to UFOs that is above and beyond the usual strangeness associated with the phenomenon. It is frequently associated with synchronicity.

Since July, we’ve been getting some of our out of print books into digital form through Crossroad Press.  Since we no longer have Word files for some of these books, Crossroad scans the actual book, formats the document, and designs a cover. What really takes time on their end is proofing the formatted material for errors – i.e., reading the digital file. So we’ve offered to proof our books to speed things up.

The books that Crossroad put up first for me were two in a suspense/mystery series of four books that I initially wrote as Alison Drake – Tango Key  and Fevered  In addition, Crossroad created an audio book from Tango Key.

The next two books in the series are Black Moon and High Strangeness. All four books take place on the fictional island of Tango Key. It’s a rather mysterious island, with a rich history and mythology, and a geography unlike the rest of Florida. There are hills! Cliffs! A lighthouse!  The island is connected to Key West by a twelve-mile bridge. The main character in the books is Detective Aline Scott, a quirky woman born and bred on Tango Key who has a pet skunk and solid intuitive skills.

Now, here’s where the synchros come in.

I apparently forgot to tell David Wilson, who started Crossroad, about the order of the books in the series. It turned out that he didn’t have a copy of Black Moon, the third book, but had High Strangeness (the fourth book) formatted, and asked if he could publish that one before Black Moon. Even though the four books comprise a series, the books can also be read as stand-alones, so I said sure and he emailed the digital file. I’ve been proofing it for the last two days.

The book was published twenty years ago by Ballantine and I’d forgotten what it was about until I started proofing the digital file: a double homicide at an exclusive psychiatric clinic on the island. The suspect, who escaped from the clinic,had been receiving electroshock treatments that have pretty much erased her memories so that when she escapes, it’s fear and terror rather than memory that propels her to a home she lived in when she was much younger. An isolated home. The suspect, Margaret, believes she was abducted by aliens, that the Grays impregnated her and took her baby, but these memories are  recovered in bits and pieces.

Right now, Rob and I are writing Aliens in the Backyard, a non-fiction book about encounters and abductions.  That’s the first synchro. The name of the chapter Rob’s currently working on? High Strangeness.

I’m not sure what this synchro means. Perhaps it’s addressing the high strangeness that exists in publishing these days. Twenty years ago when this novel was published, it never occurred to me that it would be reborn as an e-book. Twenty years and quantum leaps in technology. Wow.

 

 

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One of My Favorite Flashmob Dancing Routines

. With nearly 1,500 posts, it’s possible we posted this before. But this one is a favorite.

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A Roswell synchro

Former UFO debunker now says there were two crashes at Roswell…

I don’t think we’ve ever written about Roswell on our blog, even though we’ve put up quite a few UFO-related stories. It’s probably because Roswell is so well known. It’s also a case where many of the long-time UFO researchers say the story has been conflated into something they say it never was – the crash of an alien craft. Meanwhile, if there’s any case that the public knows about, it’s Roswell and there’s widespread belief that something very mysterious happened there.

Now comes Lt. Col. Richard French, a retired air force pilot, who says there was not one crash, but two near Roswell in 1947. He claims the first UFO was hit with an electronic pulse-type weapon. All the controls failed and it crashed. The second crash was that of a similar alien vessel that was on a rescue mission for the first one.

The problem with the story is that the type of weapons described didn’t exist at the time. Or did they, and we didn’t know?

The strange synchro here relates to an MIB story that appeared in Operation Trojan Horse, a 1970 UFO book by John Keel. A woman in Owatonna, Minnesota, who had a UFO experience accompanied by a number of paranormal incidents, was approached by a mysterious stranger, who called himself Major Richard French. He was wearing crisp new clothes, not a uniform. She was told not to talk it to anyone about her experience.

Was it the same person? If so, then French’s story about being a debunker takes on more veracity, and with it the scenario about Roswell.


 

 

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Hard-wired for fear

Yeah, a nerdy chart for art today…but with a purpose.

We hear it over and over again. Obama is a socialist. He’s redistributing the wealth. So after four years, how’s that redistribution working out?

Ah, well, actually wealth has continued to be redistributed upward. More and more middle class people are falling out of the middle class as the rich become richer and richer. Imagine being so rich that you could put $300 million into a political campaign to get one of your fellow fat cats into power.

Why would a person do something like that? The simple answer: fear. It seems conservatives are hard-wired for fear. Here are a few headlines:

Conservatives Big on Fear, Brain Study Finds | Psychology Today

Obama ‘fear’ drives social conservatives

Study: Conservatives have larger ‘fear center’ in brain 

Conservatives fear the future, so they’re lying about the Chevy Volt

Sociopaths Prey on Conservative’s Fears — Tea Party for the Crazy

It goes on and on. Story after story. Even blogging conservatives say it’s true. Here’s one.

“FEAR: I’ll agree that conservatives think through fear. I prefer to call it cautious. It’s not the party who does it to us, we are all like this. Is that bad? We’re hard-wired differently Rob, in the brain…it’s not something we choose necessarily. Liberals just drift along expecting everything’s gonna be alright, caution to the wind. Then when bad things happen who do they run to save their sorry behinds?”

In spite of admitting to the fear factor, it still comes down to liberals being wimps, needing conservatives to bail them out. I must have my liberal blinders on too tightly, because I don’t see that as anything near reality. Maybe she’s thinking of Bush starting two wars after 9-11. That really worked out.

So when the conservative mind-set see charts like the one above, they are not put at ease. It just means the liberals – those people with conscience, empathy, and compassion for the poor and the most vulnerable in society- are going to take it all away. Yet, conservatives tend to claim the high ground on morality. How does that work? It seems their compassion ends at the point of birth and they dismiss nearly half of the U.S population as moochers.

If you want to see how well the super wealthy have done over the past three decades, take a look here.

– Rob

 

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Are Bookstores Becoming Extinct?

When was the last time you were in a record store? It even sounds sort of strange, doesn’t it?  Have you been into a video store recently?  In our area, there isn’t a record store in sight, but there’s still a small Blockbuster a few miles from the house. We rarely use it because we subscribe to Netflix which, for a reasonable price, mails a couple of DVDs a month right to our house.

Wikipedia has an extensive list of retailers who have gone bust recently, some who couldn’t make it because of the faltering economy, others who were overcome by developing technology.  Will bookstores follow suit and go the way of the Dodo bird?

When Borders Books went belly up last year, it followed in the tracks of some of my favorite stores –  Circuit City, Linens N Things, and Hollywood Video. Borders was a 40-year-old chain that popularized the big bookstore concept, and when it went bust, it left a lot of publishers holding the bag and ultimately left one main player in the bookstore chain game: Barnes and Noble.  For writers, this means that if your book doesn’t get picked up by B&N – there’s only so much space shelf, after all – it impacts your sales.

Recently, there was an interesting story about a 70-year-old writer, Kate Alcott, who wrote a novel called The Dressmaker.  The book was submitted to publishers by her agent,  and was rejected about a dozen times, with references to the less than stellar sales of her previous book, which Bookscan dutifully reported.   This outfit, Bookscan,  is no writer’s friend. Because of Alcott’s Bookscan stats, her agent suggested submitting The Dressmaker to publishers under a pseudonym.  And because the pseudonymous author had no Bookscan history, no sales history, it sold for  high five figures.

For quite a while, Alcott kept up the pretense with her publisher about her fake name, her fake life; her editor thought she was the fictional writer Alcott had created. Eventually, of course, the truth came out, it usually does, and friends who have read the novel love it.

My point here, I think, is that writing, which is usually associated with the arts, is big business. It’s Capitalism with some a giant C. The publishing industry, bookstores, and movie spinoffs on novels: they all begin with writers. Writers are the storytellers, the ones who used to be the oral historians, the ones who sat around campfires  in the stone age, who performed for royalty during the Renaissance,  who sit in front of computers now.

Yet, writers are often the last to know what’s going on. What’s the print run for my current book? Why is my cover awful? What’s the publisher doing for my book?  What do I need to do? The exception here is simple: the bestsellers that makes the NY Times list.  You know their names, they don’t change much: King, Koontz, Roberts, Collins, Rowling… A roll call of the rich, the famous, and the best storytellers around.  But all of them started at the bottom.

I can’t imagine a world without physical bookstores, can’t imagine not walking into such a place and smelling the books, touching them, picking them up.  But I think the day is coming and that it’s coming fast, when bookstores become extinct.  Just as record stores are a memory for me now, I suspect bookstores will be such a memory not so far into the future. Maybe only libraries will have actual physical books. Digital books save a lot of trees,  you get them instantly. And more and more people are buying Kindle, Nooks, iPads, and bookstores and publishers are scrambling to catch up to…well, whatever this is.

Paradigm shift, anyone?

 

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The Circle of Light for Mike Perry

 

Here’s the healing circle for our blogging friend,  Mike Perry. Light your candles at noon wherever you live. We posted this shortly after midnight EDT on 9/19, so the time in England should be sometime after 6 AM on that date. Mike said he’s due at the hospital at 7:30 AM. He wasn’t sure when the surgery would be.  So I hope this powerful image of a circle of healing light will be with him and his wife, Karin, throughout his surgery and afterward. Both of them are in the center of the circle.

 

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Healing Circle for Mike Perry

Mike’s photo with post about his absence

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Let’s use our power as a group to focus on our blogging friend, Mike Perry. 

Mike has a fantastic blog on synchronicity and every other anomaly you can name. I think we found his blog early in 2009, the year we started our blog, but I’m not sure. At some point we started trading emails. We used some of Mike’s synchro stories in both of our books.

He and his German born wife, Karin, live in Cornwall and some of my favorite posts on Mike’s blog are about his area, about the mysterious places and history of certain landmarks. I also love Mike’s posts on his foreign travels, which seem to be jammed with synchros. When he travels, he disconnects from the Internet entirely, something I can’t bring myself to do, but maintains his blog with daily posts.

I check Mike’s blog every morning. It’s my first stop, with my first sip of coffee. So in August, I went on one morning and didn’t find a new post.  When it happened the next day, I wrote to Daz, who I knew corresponded with Mike. In the past, whenever Mike was going to head out with Karin on one of their adventures, he would drop us an email and let us know he was going to be out of town. But Daz, like me, hadn’t heard anything from Mike.

I felt uneasy. I like Mike. Never met the guy, but there’s a camaraderie you develop with blogging buddies that is difficult to explain. When that connection exists, it’s as if you’re sitting across the table from the person, trading synchro stories.

On August 14, Mike posted that he had missed 3 days of posts because he had been diagnosed with kidney cancer. He’s  scheduled for surgery tomorrow, September 19, for the removal of his right kidney.

So how about if, at our respective noons tomorrow, we light a candle for Mike’s speedy recovery? Say a few words, murmur a prayer, do whatever it is that you do within the context of your own beliefs. Envision him healed,  emerging from the surgery easily, and back to his life quickly!

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Falling Skies


A few weeks ago, Mathmajick had a series of dreams that involve a synchronicity with a story about a young hero. Her dream and the post involved the name Noah and a TV series on TNT called Falling Skies, which stars Noah Wyle playing the character of Tom Mason, the father of three sons and a former history professor before the aliens invaded the planet and killed a whole bunch of people. Spielberg is the executive producer of the series.

Rob and I were surprised we hadn’t heard about the series. Then again, there are so many TV series and movies related to UFOs/aliens, it’s hard to keep up. At any rate, when our daughter was visiting, we rented the premiere from Amazon for $1.99 and streamed it through one of the laptops. Then we went to Netflix. We’ve now watched five episodes, and the fifth one is the most powerful to date.

This story is strong on family ties, that’s the human side. These aliens, after all, abduct children and put harnesses on their spines, bio-gizmos that resemble large crustaceans. These harnesses somehow control the children, turn them into zombie-like beings who are at the complete mercy of the aliens. A special surgery is required to remove these harnesses from children and it isn’t always successful. Once the harnesses are surgically removed from the children’s spines, the kids are creepy. You don’t know if they’ve been freed or if they are still under alien control or if they’re suffering from PTSD.

Sometimes, the human side of this story collapses into soap opera country; you can tell the writers are trying too hard to make these characters people with whom we can identify.  We get it with dad and his three sons, okay?

In terms of the aliens themselves, this series is the polar opposite of ET. These aliens are…grotesque. First, there are huge robotic creatures that make a lot of noise as they patrol the area. They are armed with lasers. Then there are the Skitters, the aliens themselves, reptilian creatures with six legs that resemble walking octopi. They communicate through radio waves and who, according to the Falling Skies website, super-intelligent, tactical. So far, I haven’t seen any evidence of that intelligence.

What are their special powers? Rob asked  as we talked about the fourth episode.  Are they telepathic? Telekinetic?  Well, no. But the harnesses they put on children apparently cure whatever ails them, so this in itself suggests intelligence, right? But he has a point. The one alien who is captured is placed in a wire cage that doesn’t look strong enough to hold rats.

One of the most intriguing characters is a female pediatrician, Anne Glass, played by Moon Bloodgood.  With a real name like that, you know she’s unusual. Like the character Noah Wyle plays, she lost a son during the invasion. But her back story promises to be a game changer.

Some of the intricacies of the plot and characters weren’t apparent to me until I clicked around TNT’s blog on the series. Certain things aren’t adequately explained – like why the humans are using a school as their headquarters while the Skitters (aliens) are in a hospital just across town? If I were among these survivors, I would urge my community to get as far from these aliens as possible. Of course, then there wouldn’t be a story, right?

Skitters apparently sleep  like bats – hanging upside down – have soft palates which, when damaged, instantly affects their brain stems and renders them unconsciousness. By the time you learn this, you really don’t care about the flaws in the story. Thanks to the strong acting, the post-apocalyptic theme, the aliens, as ugly and horrid as they are, there’s enough here to keep my interest through the first season.

We’ve seen and read these stories before – V, Flashforward, I, Robot, Soylent Green, 1984, The Giver, Logan’s Run, Blade Runner, Day After Tomorrow, Childhood’s End, The Handmaid’s Tale  – but now they are their own genre – dystopian. In fact, that’s the genre assigned to J.J. Abrahms new TV series, Revolution. This dystopian tag may be due, in part, to the success of Cormac McCarthy’s brilliant and depressing Pulitzer prize novel, The Road, and to Suzanne Collins’ enormously successful trilogy The Hunger Games.Both became movies and seemed to set trends in storytelling.

I recently finished a young adult novel called Delirious, set in a world where love is forbidden and where everyone undergoes a surgery at the age of 18 – a rite of passage – that nullifies emotions. What fun, huh?

And yet, these types of stories can be enormously powerful. The storyline always goes like this: a mass event changes our reality, and people are forced to adapt in order to survive. Human flaws and strengths are revealed. Heroes, rebels, rogues, prophets, pagans, and bad guys emerge. We become vested in the characters, identify with them, and imagine, What if.

What if  thousands of alien spaceships appear in our skies tomorrow? What if the Arctic melts completely and the oceans rise a hundred feet next week? What if  democracy in the Western world collapses, what if  the nuclear meltdown of Fukushima happens worldwide? What if the poles abruptly shift? How will we react?  Perhaps the real value in these dystopian visions lies in the horror they trigger in each of us and through that inner terror, we reject such a future and become more committed to creating a peaceful, integrated world, an Indra’s net.

I suspect that if the writers on Falling Skies are left alone, if the committee decisions cease, this series  could become a classic that would prompt us to make better, more humane choices in these precarious times.

 

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Fool on the Hill

Recently, while moving about the Internet, I came upon a long list of Beatle tunes. Apparently, I could play anyone of them. So as I moved down the list, I didn’t want to hear any of those early songs from the first couple of albums. I slowed when I reached the Rubber Soul album. It’s one of my favorites, but so was Magical Mystery Tour. For some reason, I paused when I reached Fool on the Hill.

I never knew quite what to make of that McCartney song. I would pick Lennon’s Strawberry Fields Forever over it any day. Are we supposed to feel sorry for the fool? Are we each the fool on the hill at some point? Fortunately, there are no hills in South Florida. But then I don’t need a hill to act foolish.

In the book Yesterday, author Alistair Taylor reports a mysterious incident involving a man who inexplicably appeared near him and McCartney during a walk on Primrose Hill and then disappeared again. Soon after, McCartney and Taylor had conversed about the existence of God, and that, Taylor suggests, prompted Paul to write the song.

Ah, so God is the fool on the hill? Hmm, maybe Paul was writing about Alistair.

In the end, I didn’t click on the song, didn’t play any of them. But then early the next morning, as I was driving to the airport, what comes on the radio but…Fool on the Hill. Of course, synchro, I thought.

But synchronicities should be ‘meaningful’ coincidences. So how was it meaningful? I didn’t know. I’d just spent a week in the North Country visiting my mother–a quiet respite–and was soon subjected once again to the news of the world and politics, and I couldn’t get that song out of my head. When I heard that the U.S. Congress was heading once again toward a disastrous fight over the budget after the election, it occurred to me that Congress is called The Hill. It seems there are many fools on that hill.

However, that didn’t feel right. And the song kept playing in my head. I noticed that I heard it when the presidential race came to mind. So maybe I’d narrowed it two people, the candidates. But which one?

For me, that was a no-brainer. There’s much I could say to argue my choice. But I’ll avoid turning a Beatle song into a political diatribe, and let you make your own pick. But, if for some reason, you can’t figure it out, well, there’s always Bush.

 

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