
Thanksgiving is one of those American holidays that I love. It’s like Christmas. You spend the day with people you love, give thanks for the quality of your life, and eat well. It’s also a holiday connected to important memories, odd memories.
During some point in my four years at college in upstate New York, it became too expensive to fly home to Florida for just a few days, so I went to Montclair, New Jersey, with Carolyn Sayre – Cookie, to most of us. She was probably six feet tall in her bare feet, with a towering intellect and an electric presence. I’d known her for a couple of years and even when she was a freshman, she indulged the mystical side of her personality. She thought she would probably major in religious studies – at the time, I recall, she was into Buddhism.
I’d never been to Montclair before. I’m not even sure if, at that point, I’d ever been to New Jersey. But Montclair was impressive. Huge homes on huge properties, wide, tree-lined streets where everyone seemed to drive exotic cars. I don’t remember ever seeing someone who wasn’t white. That bothered me. But I must admit I loved driving into Manhattan with Cookie behind the wheel of her convertible Packard.
The Sayre home was a sprawling mansion that immediately told me I was way out of my league, that I should probably prepare myself for meals tended by servants, lots of rules and regulations about what we could and could not do, and a no-no to midnight raids on the fridge. Was I ever wrong.
There were hardly any rules at all. Cookie’s parents were all about live and let live, which certainly suited a couple of budding hippies who had started joining protests against the Vietnam War. Even though we had a formal Thanksgiving dinner, tended by servants, nothing else about this family was formal.
Cookie’s father was a corporate attorney who had made a ton of money doing whatever corporate lawyer types do. Her mother was a knockout with the most beautiful eyes I’d ever seen. I have no idea whether she worked or what. She was a total mystery to me. It turned out that the house had a fantastic library and I spent most of the Thanksgiving holiday in there. One of the books I found was A Psychiatrist Looks at ESP by Berthold Schwarz.
In the Sixties, there wasn’t much published about psychic phenomena. But I was captivated by Schwarz’s book and astounded that he mentioned Cookie’s father William Sayre, who had been involved in one of his ESP experiments. Schwarz’s book was a cornerstone for me. After all, if a genuine MD shrink was investigating the stuff that fascinated me, I couldn’t be all that nuts, right?
I remember talking to Cookie’s dad about the book, about his experiences, and I could tell he knew it wasn’t supposed to fit into his life as a corporate attorney. But he was such a genuine man, that he talked freely about his experiences.
So here’s the synchro. Fast- forward twenty plus years. Rob and I were doing a story for OMNI and called on Schwarz as a professional source. He invited us to his condo in Vero Beach, just a few hours north of us. I knew his name was familiar for some reason, but couldn’t place it until he opened the door – and I recognized him from his photo in that book decades before.
“Do you know William Sayre?” I blurted at some point shortly after we’d stepped inside his home.
His eyes widened. “Knew him, yes. He died a few years back. What a wonderful man, very psychic. What’s your connection?”
For the next few years, we visited Schwarz now and then and kept abreast of his research. He was definitely a guy who was way ahead of his contemporaries, and every Thanksgiving, I think of those few days at Cookie’s house when I discovered Schwarz’s book, never knowing that decades later, I would meet him or that he would regress an abductee we met and brought to him. Always, Schwarz was curious, inquisitive, and if you’d experienced high strangeness in your life, he was there to help you interpret it.
That’s part of the beauty of synchronicity, the way it brings the past into the future, or the future into the past, and it all comes together in the present. So today, on Thanksgiving when we commemorate whatever the pilgrims did, I pay homage to synchronicity, that unifying force that so often brings our lives full circle.