That Trickster, Smeagol
The trickster has his own chapter in our book. Anyone who has ever experienced a trickster synchro knows why this Jungian archetype deserves his own chapter. He plays with us, this archetype, laughs at us, pokes fun at us. Think Smeagol in Lord of the Rings, the Magician in the tarot, Jim Carey in The Mask, the Joker in Batman…You get the idea.
One of our first posts on the trickster was called Tony and the Trickster, when we had maybe 3 readers. Tony was Trish’s dad. It’s such a classic trickster tale that we decided to post again, rewritten.
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Tony was a retired accountant, who absolutely loved numbers. Born in Quincy, Illinois in 1913, he left there some time after high school and accompanied his older brother to Tulsa, Oklahoma, where one of their sisters lived. He didn’t have the money to attend college. The irony here is that when he was in his late 70s, he applied for membership in MENSA, the high I.Q. society, and got in. I think he attended a technical school of some kind in Tulsa. Then the Great Depression hit and whipped away the American economy. He applied for a job as an accountant with Creole (Exxon) and in 1937 landed in some obscure town on the shores of Lake Maracaibo.
Now skip ahead more than 60 years. Tony is in his late 80s. His wife of 56 years died several years earlier. He has Parkinson’s and pretty much lives in a wheelchair, in an assisted living facility in Georgia where my sister is director of nursing. In assisted living facilities, your neighbors change frequently. As my dad remarked on more than one occasion, “We all know that assisted living is the end of the line, the equivalent of mile marker zero.” That’s Key West. “I never know who lives across the hall from me.”
So a couple months after he moved in, the man who had been living across the hall from him passed on and a woman moved in. A few days later, he met her. To his utter and total shock, the woman was a former high school classmate from Quincy,Illinois – from more than 65 or 70 years earlier. When I commented about the incredible synchronicity, my dad’s reply was: “The universe has a twisted sense of humor. I don’t like her any more now than I did back then.”
Looks like the trickster had brought his life full circle and taught me a thing or two about the nature of its lesson.
















