Since I’m working on a tight deadline for book about ghosts and spirits, I was wondering earlier today that if my concentration would attract any of the spirit beings I’m writing about. I figured if something happened today in that respect, it certainly would be a synchronicity.
As the evening wore on, I decided to take a break and watch an episode of the new season of Dexter. No ghosts had appeared in my office, but plenty in my head as I’d written for several hours.
One scene in Dexter made me laugh. A stripper was talking to a cop on the show and told him that she wasn’t going to stay in this business. “I have big plans. I want to start my own business as a dog walker.”
A few minutes after the show ended, Megan – our dog-walking daughter–called, and I told her about the scene. She laughed and then told me a bit of trivia about the show that is a synchro of sorts in the same vein.
Michael C. Hall, the actor who plays Dexter Morgan is now divorced from Jennifer Carpenter, who plays Dexter’s sister. (They met on the set, married, and divorced and continued their fictive roles all the while.) Now Michael Hall has a new girlfriend, Megan said, and “Guess what her name is? Morgan MacGregor!”
Good one, I told her. Then, shortly after hanging up, I noticed a small manicure scissors on the floor of the closet in my office. It was in plain view and I’d never seen it before. It turned out that Trish had lost it a month ago, and had looked all over for it. Oddly enough, she very rarely goes into that closet. So we wondered how it had gotten there.
While talking about it I suddenly smelled a strong scent of lavender and asked Trish if she’d just put it on some scented hand lotion or something smelling of lavender. Nope. Then she smelled it, too, and said, “It’s that book you’re writing. You’re attracting this stuff.”
Once again my apologies to our friends in other countries. This is a post about American politics, not synchros.
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The last presidential debate took place this evening, October 22. Throughout this debate, I sat in our family room with my jaw permanently dropped. Here’s why:
When we lived in Venezuela, we traveled back to the U.S. every summer, usually to Oklahoma, where my mother’s family lived. For my sister and I, these trips were fun – lots of cousins to play with, lots of mischief we could get into while our parents sat around playing bridge and gabbing and catching up.
During one trip, someone punched out a screen in an upstairs window in my aunt’s house. I’m not sure why this was such a big deal, but all the kids were called into the living room and asked if they were responsible for this event. When I told my dad that my sister and I didn’t have anything to do with this, his expression became quite stern. “Please don’t ever lie to me, Trish. If you and Mary were responsible for this, just say so. Nothing is worse than a liar.”
That phrase has stuck with me for all the decades since. Nothing is worse than a liar. And yet, we have a Republican candidate who lies continually. In tonight’s debate, he reversed some of his previously held positions on the Mideast and actually embraced many of Obama’s foreign policies. It’s as if Romney doesn’t have any idea that our technology records everything. Check our website, he said to Obama. The present’s comeback? That he and his administration check Romney’s website frequently and the math for his economical policies still don’t add up.
Romney mentioned the word peace quite frequently this evening – a peaceful world, a peaceful Mideast, a peaceful Afghanistan. Yet, to achieve this elusive peace we must have the strongest military in the world, we must not be afraid to stand up to Iran – which is four years closer to nuclear weapons – or to China, where untold millions of Romney’s wealth is invested – or to these Syrian despots.
In other words, in Romney’s worldview, we must continue to be the world’s cop, we must continue to nation build – which in the past has meant installing dictators whom we control through massive foreign aid. In the past, this has meant war – more war, endless war. If Romney has his way, we would probably nuke Iran, China, Syria, and any other country that didn’t tow the U.S. line. Not too surprising, considering that the majority of his foreign policy advisors are straight out of W’s administration. I mean, really, one of Romney’s heroes is Dick Cheney. W’s Secretary of State, Condoleza Rice, appears at political functions with him.
Don’t take my word for it. Read Naomi Klein’s The Shock Doctrine, one of the most brilliant books I’ve ever read on U.S. foreign policy and what drives it.
I was delighted every time Obama called out Romney on one of his lies – about his proposed budget (where are the details?), on his polices (two months ago, you held the opposite position), on his “business” credentials (let GM go bankrupt). The choice seems utterly clear to me. Romney is an extended version of George W Bush – more tax cuts for the wealthy, more war, more world cop scenarios, more disenfranchisement of the sick, the poor, the elderly (you guys are on your own!) and more attempts to control the health care choices for women. Romney and Obama are the faces of the existing paradigms.
Romney is the old paradigm that has dominated American politics for decades (keep lying, they’ll eventually believe your lies) and Obama is the new paradigm – diplomacy, discussion, sanctions instead of nukes.
Romney’s flip-flops make him a caricature – Daffy Duck on steroids. Republican pundits who defend him talk about the way his policies and views are “expanding, evolving.” That’s a fancy way of saying that he lies to look good. When he talks about peace – he means war. When he talks about choices in anything – Medicare, Social Security, women’s health – he means he and his administration will choose for you, that they will impose their high and mighty morals on you. Never mind that they only give a damn about you until you’re born. After that, you’re on your own.
Never mind that he’ll send your son and daughters off to war, even though he never served a day in any war. Never mind that he talks about the people he has met while campaigning – the unemployed teacher in this state, the dying mother in that state. His policies would dismantle the teachers’ union and overturn Obama Care, (based on the health plan Romney created for Massachusetts when he was governor of that state). His policies would return us to the W years, which ended in the worst financial crisis we’ve experienced since the Great Depression. When he talks about the tax burden on “small businesses,” he includes (but doesn’t mention) corporations like General Electric that paid NO taxes last year.
My dad’s words echo in my head: Nothing is worse than a liar.
One of our friends at the gym said it best today. Bill, a 58-year-old musician, stopped by my treadmill to say hi. “So, you watching the prez debate tonight?” I asked him.
Bill and I became friends during the 2008 presidential election season, when I heard him arguing with a McCain supporter. I piped in with my two cents and we decimated every argument this Repub made. After that, he started going to Rob’s yoga classes and whenever we see each other at the gym, our conversations are usually about politics and the shifting landscapes of American and global life.
“Maybe. O’s got it sewn up, Trish. Don’t believe anything they’re saying about the polls.”
Bill just laughed. Bill and I both agreed that these “undecided voters,” just two weeks out from the election, are basically a myth. At this point in the game, if you’re undecided about who you’re going to vote for, then you are basically clueless about what’s at stake in the 2012 election. It’s about a paradigm shift and the choices have never been clearer.
Are you voting for the past – Romney (W, Reagan, Bush senior) – or for the present and the future – Obama?
Yesterday, Rob and I headed north with our dog, Noah, to the town of Juno, where there’s a dog beach – unleashed dogs are welcome to romp and frolic in the waves. We didn’t realize until we neared the town that boat races were going to be held. Throngs of people carrying beach chairs and coolers were headed to the beach on foot, in cars, and there wasn’t a parking spot within miles.
So we headed south on A-1-A, the road that parallels the beach, looking for a park where we could at least take Noah for a walk. We’d been in the car for awhile, the weather was gorgeous, and he was antsy to get out and stretch his legs. We found a park in a quiet neighborhood, with a path that wound around a small lake.
Moments after I snapped this photo of a duck family-
…I heard a tremendous splash and glanced up. In the middle of the lake, the water was still frothing. Certain that I’d heard the splash of a gator, I hurried to catch up with Rob and tell him. Just then, my phone jingled. It was an email from a friend, who wrote: “I have been up to my ears in alligators this week…”
Huh? What’s that mean? I wondered. I’d never heard the phrase before. Since Mary Louise, the woman who sent the email, was born in India to British parents, I figured it might be a British saying.
Rob and Noah had stopped to wait for me and as I caught up to them, I saw they were standing next to this sign:
I started laughing. “You aren’t going to believe this synchro,” I said, and handed him my phone so he could read the email from Mary Louise.
Maybe 30 seconds separated the arrival of the email and my seeing the sign. It had been perhaps 90 seconds since I’d heard the tremendous splash that I believed was a gator. OK, I thought. Cluster. But what does it mean? Were we going to wake up the next morning and find a gator in our backyard?
We drove to a funky restaurant on the beach to get some lunch. The weather was so nice, we sat out on the porch. About 15 minutes after our arrival, Rob, who was facing the parking lot, said, “Incredible. Look at that guy’s shirt.” He nodded toward a man and woman who had just gotten out of a truck.
They were young, probably in their twenties. The man wore a University of Florida t-shirt, with a gator logo on the front. Sports-wise, the U of F is known as the “home of the gators.” As Rob and I both stared at the young man, he turned to say something to his companion and we nearly gagged. On the back of the shirt was a player’s name, the real last name of Charles Fontaine, the man from Canada featured in our nine posts about the Quebec encounter.
And with that, the possible significance of the synchro slammed into place.
Alligators are believed to be about 37 million years old. They are native only to America and China. In America, they are found in the southeastern U.S, primarily in Florida and Louisiana, with more than a million of them in each state. They inhabit fresh water environments and also live in brackish water. The female gators typically stay close to the eggs they lay for the entire 65-day incubation period.
From Wikipedia: “The temperature at which alligator eggs develop determines their sex. Those eggs which are hatched at a temperature of 34 °C (93 °F) or more become males, while those at a temperature of 30 °C (86 °F) or lower become female. When the young begin to hatch the mother quickly digs them out and carries them to the water in her mouth.”
These creatures are tough, resilient, primal, incredibly strong, and can move fast in short bursts. They can easily kill domestic animals –cats, dogs – and humans.
Gators instill both fear and fascination in us humans.
Suppose this gator cluster is addressing Charles’s encounter and his experience of it? During the encounter, he experienced a kind of fascination, which was followed by abject fear, flat-out terror. But he’s tough and resilient and as a result of his encounter with what he previously believed was impossible, he now has a broader worldview.
On another level, though, suppose the beings in his encounter were the reptilians, an ancient, primal race of entities whose agenda is anything but benevolent?
I’m beginning to think that it wouldn’t be so terrible to find a gator in our backyard tomorrow. You call the gator removal folks, keep the pets inside. Then I could dismiss this other possibility.
This story comes from Bob Preston, an old friend from my college days with whom I shared many strange and inexplicable experiences. We lost touch for years, then reconnected and were delighted to find that our bond was still there, stronger than ever. There seems to be an overlapping of realities in this story, parallel worlds, perhaps, I’m not sure. Anyway, here it is.
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March/1972: A Chicago Story
For several months I had been experiencing increasing pain in the area of my left shoulder. After multiple appointments with gatekeeper doctors and specialists, no definite diagnosis had been determined.
My apartment was located on the 2000 block of Lincoln Ave. in Chitown, above the Wise Fools Tap in Chicago. It was triangular shaped, with the point of the triangle situated in the alcove. There were windows facing to the west in the alcove , and to the north in the adjacent living room. By all accounts a wonderful place, at a wonderful time!
After returning from work one day, I entered my apartment, walked to my desk that was located in the alcove, and sat down to catch up with paper work. I put on an LP … (London Sessions with Howlin’ Wolf), smoked a bowl, leaned back to become ‘one with my world’, and shut my eyes. After a while my shoulder pain subsided. I opened my eyes, shook off the day, and stood up to flip the LP.
As I rose, I became aware of a shadow on the left side of my peripheral vision. I turned my head and focused on a shadow of a cat, midway up the west wall next to the west facing windows. I sat back down and watched ‘the cat’ as it appeared to be watching me. After a bit, the cat stood up, arched it’s back, walked across the windows to the end of the narrow wall. It then appeared to turn right and began to walk eastward, on the wall and over the windows!
Now my curiosity was peaked. I looked around to find the light source that was projecting the shadow. The interesting thing was that there wasn’t any apparent light source that I could attribute to the image. There was no cat sitting in a front of a window and I couldn’t help but realize that I didn’t own a cat! I stood up, following the cat on it’s easterly direction.
I began to watch my mystery kitty with greatly increased scrutiny. It stopped and sat down. It seemed as though the cat was waiting for me to pay attention to it. Kitty immediately stood up and once again headed to the east. At the end of the wall it turned to the south and continued walking! Although it did not seem possible, it was happening.
At the end of that wall it made another right turn, this time heading west, back to the place where I had first noticed it. When it arrived at the point of origin , it simply vanished! I looked around the room, searching for the furry apparition. It was no longer visibly noticeable. Shadows simply do not act like that. As I contemplated the incongruity of what I had just witnessed, the throbbing pain returned to my shoulder, and continued unabated.
I returned to the desk, sat down and glanced around the room. I noticed the clock…what I thought had taken a few minutes, had actually taken well over an hour. I didn’t know what to think. I heard my roommates entering the apartment. I tried to relate the story to them, but it didn’t make sense. They didn’t have any idea what I was talking about. The pain in my shoulder was increasing to the point that I decided to take some medication and go to bed.
The floor in my bedroom was going to be sanded the following day, consequently most of the furniture, including rugs, had been removed…only the bed remained. As I sat on the edge of my bed, I started to open a container that held pain pills I had picked it up at a pharmacy on my way home from work . The prescription had been for 30 pills.
My roommate came to my bedroom door, and started telling me about his day. As I listened, I continued trying to open the pill container, but it slipped from my hands. Room mate at door, no furniture except the bed and no rugs – yet, the pill case never hit the floor. No sound was heard by either of us, and there wasn’t any container was on the floor. We were amazed at this turn of events. We searched the room but nothing was found.
I said goodnight and settled in. A short time later, my girlfriend came by and slid in next to me. After a fitful night of pain and mental confusion, I finally fell to sleep as dawn approached. My girlfriend got up to go to work. I woke sometime later and discovered I was paralyzed and blind. An ambulance was called and I was taken to Northwestern University Hospital.
Somehow, during the night, three discs in my neck had collided together, causing fragments – splinters – to penetrate my spinal cord. The problem had affected L3,4 & 5. At last I knew what had caused the months of pain! Under the care of a wonderful surgeon and medical staff the problem was corrected and, in time, I was fortunate enough to recover all movement and my eyesight.
After many weeks, I was able to return home to my apartment. With help, I climbed the steps to the second floor. While I had been gone, the floor had been sanded and the furniture and rugs had been returned to the room.
I entered my bedroom, crossed the floor and sat on my bed. With my roommate standing at the door, I heard a rattling clunk at my feet. I looked down and, to my surprise, there, on the floor was the missing pill bottle! I had been looking at my roommate the whole time…he had not tossed anything.
I opened the container and, for whatever reason, counted the pills. There were 27! What had happened to the other three pills?: Where had the container been all this time?
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At the time Bob sent this story, I was reading Whitley Strieber’s Solving the Communion Enigma, where he talks about UFOs, aliens, and parallel worlds.
I think we meet Jeri Gerard during the first six months of our blog’s existence. I’m not sure how the connection came about, but her blog, Goddess of the Confluence, has always intrigued me. She has a profound connection with Nepal and we used several of her synchros in both of our books on synchronicity. She’s the mother of two boys and has a flourishing jewelry business that keeps her on the road.
Her jewelry isn’t your run of the mill mall stuff; it’s from Nepal and other parts of the world where she travels. One Christmas, I bought a singing bowl from Jeri and gave it to Rob for Christmas. He uses it in his meditation and yoga classes. We think the monk who owned it hangs around here from time to time, a little trickster who makes things disappear. We did a post on him.
We hadn’t heard from Jeri for awhile, then today – October 17 – she dropped by and left a comment. Shortly afterward, I received an email from her about a synchronicity involving numbers, her sons, and, well, life.
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Here is a beautiful little synchronicity for you.
Joshua has had a horrible transition to high school. His grades are fine but he wants to be involved in everything. The stress has eroded the lining of his stomach and he has been missing a lot school and after school activities that he really should be enjoying.Meanwhile his father and I have been stressing about Joshua as well as our finances. I won’t go into the details, but there has been a hurricane of bills and unexpected responsibilities.
I have been bombarded with 11:11 and 4:44 encounters. I often wake up at 4:44 am or am having a chat in the kitchen with my husband and suddenly notice it’s 11:11 both am and pm. Finally, I went looking for the meanings of 11:11 and 4:44 and came up with something that suggested to me that a change is coming and I am being escorted by loving guidance. I do not know if this is a personal or a global reference or both.
Concurrently, my 9 year old, Sean, and I are reading a Wrinkle in Time together for his 5th grade book club. A few nights ago our family went to see Joshua in a concert. Sean, who was not much interested in the concert spent the entire time reading A Wrinkle in Time, on my iPhone. When he finished the book he went in search of another Madeleine L’Engle book and found A Swiftly Tilting Planet, that he immediately downloaded and began to read.
The choir director announced that they were going to sing ‘Dona Nobis Pacem.’ Sean lifted his head and was wide-eyed with attention for the first time that evening. He said, “Look, Mom!” He was pointing to the passage on the iPhone where Charles Wallace suggests to his family, “Let’s sing Dona Nobis Pacem. It’s what we’re all praying for.”
And the choir began to sing, “Give us peace, give us peace, give us peace,” over and over again. It was beautiful. I took this as a suggestion. That night before I went to sleep, I said my prayer for peace and thanked my loving escorts. That night I woke up at 3:33 am. In the morning I looked up 3:33 to find a cosmic YES.
Joshua is feeling better but will be taking stomach medicine for a few weeks. Wayne and I will be digging out from under the bills for a while but we do have resources and the worry really doesn’t help. Sometimes it takes a little nudge to let go of the worry and embrace the peace. Still, part of me feels that these signs are not just about my family but more of a global entreaty.
I hope all is well with you.
Peace,
Jeri
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I think it’s great that a nine-year-old boy recognized the synchro between the song and what he was reading at that very moment!
When it comes to near-death experiences, some of the most skeptical medical professionals are neurologists. Typically, they espouse a materialistic view emphasizing that the brain is the source of consciousness, and that NDEs are products of the dying brain–hallucinations and other imaginary mental constructions that will ultimately stop when the brain’s activity stops. If this hypothesis is true, then NDEs tell us nothing about life after death.
Now comes Dr Eben Alexander, a Harvard-educated neurosurgeon, who drifted in a coma for seven days in 2008 after contracting meningitis. During his illness Alexander says that the part of his brain which controls human thought and emotion “shut down” and that he experienced “something so profound that it gave me a scientific reason to believe in consciousness after death.”
What was it? He saw angels.
Writing for Newsweek, Dr Alexander says he was met by a beautiful blue-eyed woman in a “place of clouds, big fluffy pink-white ones” and “shimmering beings.” He has written a book, Proof of Heaven, describing his experience.
“Birds? Angels? These words registered later, when I was writing down my recollections. But neither of these words do justice to the beings themselves, which were quite simply different from anything I have known on this planet. They were more advanced. Higher forms.”
Alexander added that a “huge and booming.. glorious chant, came down from above, and I wondered if the winged beings were producing it. The sound was palpable and almost material, like a rain that you can feel on your skin but doesn’t get you wet.”
The neurosurgeon says he had heard stories from patients who spoke of out-of-body experiences, but disregarded them as “wishful thinking.” Now he has reconsidered his opinion following his own experience.
“I know full well how extraordinary, how frankly unbelievable, all this sounds. Had someone even a doctor told me a story like this in the old days, I would have been quite certain that they were under the spell of some delusion.
“But what happened to me was, far from being delusional, as real or more real than any event in my life. That includes my wedding day and the birth of my two sons.” He added: “I’ve spent decades as a neurosurgeon at some of the most prestigous medical institutions in our country. I know that many of my peers hold as I myself did to the theory that the brain, and in particular the cortex, generates consciousness and that we live in a universe devoid of any kind of emotion, much less the unconditional love that I now know God and the universe have toward us.
“But that belief, that theory, now lies broken at our feet. What happened to me destroyed it.” To say his experience was as real as his wedding day and the birth of his children is a strong statement in support of NDEs. I doubt that he will change the views of skeptics in his field, but maybe they’ll think twice before dismissing their patients experiences.
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Dr. Alexander’s reflections are a welcome sign from a medical field which routinely rights off NDEs as wishful thinking, telling us that we can’t trust our own experiences. Apparently, when it happened to him, Alexander wasn’t so quick to dismiss his own experience.
This post is about American politics, and I realize it may not be of interest to people from other countries. Then again, perhaps it will be. Our planet is so interconnected these days that what affects one affects all.
The 2nd presidential debate took place this evening at Hofstra University, Long Island, New York. It was a town hall meeting moderated by CNN’s Candy Crowley, that consisted of 82 individuals who claimed to be undecided voters. I have no idea how or why ANYONE would be undecided at this point, but hey, okay. Undecided. Fine. These undecided folks had some good questions.
Before we go into this, I noticed that Michelle O and Anne R wore the same color outfit – hot pink! Synchro? Or did their consultants coordinate??
The first question came from a 20-year-old college student who wanted to know what the candidates could do for his generation to obtain jobs once they graduated from college. Right off the bat, Romney started out with his lies. He sang the praises of Pell grants, a government program that enables low income students to attend college.
Truth? Romney’s plan would eliminate Pell grants.
And from this point onward, the Romney lies multiplied. I kept waiting for his nose to grow longer. I kept hoping that the story of Pinochio was a true story, that when you lie, your nose grows longer and everyone recognizes it and knows you’re a liar. Instead of the elongated nose, we saw Romney’s odd little puckered smile and lots of blinks.
On energy: Romney said that under the Obama administration, gas prices have risen. That’s true. But the bottom line here wasn’t addressed: the government does not control gas prices. The free market does that. As Obama pointed out, “The economy was on the verge of collapse, we were entering the worse recession since the Great Depression.”
On foreign policy, Obama destroyed Mitt Romney. This was the Libya question, This point illustrates the difference between a commander in chief and a presidential hopeful.
On immigration: Romney? Self-deport. Obama? The dream act.
On women’s health: Romney will defund Planned Parenthood, an organization upon which millions of women depend for mammogram, health care, contraceptive care. Abortion, per se, wasn’t addressed. Romney’s administration would overturn Roe V Wade. Yet he denies that he would do this. Denies it in spite of the fact that Paul Ryan, his running mate, co-sponsored a bill with Todd Akin (the body of a raped woman has ways to prevent pregnancy) that would confer personhood on a fertilized egg – i.e., a woman who obtains an abortion wold be guilty of murder, even if that abortion was the result of incest or rape.
On the one hand, Romney mentions his healthcare reform for Massachusetts, on which the Obamacare plan was built. Then he turns around and says he will repeal Obamacare on day one. It’s the sort of doublespeak BS he stands for.
One of the best lines? Romney’s five-point economical plan. Obama pointed out that Romney has a “very sketchy deal. Folks at the top play by a different set of rules…”
Romney then defended the points of his tax plan with: “of course the numbers will add up. I was someone who ran businesses for 25 years and balanced the budget. I ran the Olympics and the numbers added up.”
Really? Romney ran the Olympics on government bailout money.
But the crowning moment was the last statement by Obama, where he addressed Romney’s remarks to behind-the-doors donors about the 47 % of moochers in the U.S. who don’t pay taxes – people like, well, you know, the poor, the sick, the disenfranchised, seniors on Social Security.
Candy Crowley deserves a raise. She kept Romney the bully within his pen, despite his attempts to break out, and shut him up when he tried to bully his way into further discourse and more lies.
Let’s be clear about this. Tonight, Mitt Romney, a zillionaire who has been running for president for at least 20 years, can’t connect with ordinary people. Despite his pathetic attempts at anecdotes about people he has met throughout his campaign, he just doesn’t make the connection on pay equity for women, on education, on the tax plan, on foreign policy, on health care, on anything to do with women, people, or even dogs.
In the past few days, before tonight’s debate, the polls have shown that Romney has shown a ten percent rise among women voters. I find this hard to believe. What woman in her right mind would vote for a man who doesn’t believe in equal pay for women? Who believes the government should control your reproductive rights, your body? Or, as a friend said to me today, “What woman would support any guy who seeks to control your vagina?”
Forget Ohio, the state everyone says you have to win to win the presidency. This isn’t’ about Ohio. The majority of voters are women. Alienate them, and you lose the election. Romney and the Republicans must be damning the day that women won the right to vote.
The last question was interesting: How do you and your policies differ from those of George W Bush? Well, vouchers for health care, for starters. This is where the government sends you a voucher to cover some of your health care costs and then sends you off into the insurance free market to buy your own insurance. Right. Like a 75-year-old man or woman on Medicare will be able to find affordable insurance.
So, you get the idea here. What’s at stake in this election is both simple and complex. Simple in the sense that the choices are clear between the Republicans and the Democrats. Complex in the sense that we are three weeks away from the election and less than eight weeks away from the Mayan end date of December 21. The closer we get to the election, the more convinced I am that the Mayan end times – or whatever it proves to be – is about a paradigm shift, not the end of the world, not disclosure, not about anything radical. It’s about a radical shift in beliefs. We’re in the midst of it now.
This point was driven home today when I was on my way out of our local grocery store and a well-dressed elderly woman sitting by the door said, “Excuse me, can you give me a ride home? I live just three blocks from here.”
“Sure.”
“Oh my God, thank you so much.”
I loaded her groceries into my cart and then into my car. Phyllis, who will be 90 in November, always walks the three blocks to Publix, then waits for someone “kind, who will give her a ride home.” She has a teacher daughter who lives locally, a son in New York. “I used to work for Dior in New York,” she says. “I loved it. Then I taught fashion. I loved it. Now I’m here and I love that, too.”
I carried Phyllis’s groceries into her townhouse, a pristine environment where everything had its place. She invited me to stay for coffee, but I had an appointment with a deadline and demurred. But as I backed out her driveway, I knew I had just seen myself in thirty years.
If we can’t help each other, if we can’t solidify humane policies, if we can’t lend a hand to those in need, then as a country, a nation, a people, we have failed. But I’m an optimist, and I think people like Phyllis lead the way.
“My daughter is appalled that I ask strangers for rides,” Phyllis says. “She tells me, Suppose they try to rob you, mom?” Phyllis laughs at her own statement. “But what do I have to rob?”
I failed in that I should have gotten Phyllis’s number so I could drop by when she needed a ride to and from the grocery store. But I suspect our paths will cross again. Maybe that’s part of life after 12/21/12.
This is called the Dolphin Fountain. Since daughter Megan paints dolphins, I was curious to take a look at it when a correspondent sent this pic and the accompanying synchro tale. At first, I couldn’t see any dolphin. In fact, that’s why I named the post the way I did.
Was the dolphin swimming below the fountain? No, you have to look closely. It’s right at the top. That’s a kid riding a dolphin. See his/her head? In the image, it blends with the dolphin and at first glance, the top looks like a horse’s head. At least, that’s what I saw. Maybe if I could walk around the fountain, I would get a better sense of the dolphin.
Here’s the story from KLM, artist residing in Phoenix.
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I was curious about a house in my area that I have driven by a few times recently. It has those arts and crafts style tents outside in their backyard. Big white tents with clear plastic windows. So I started to look up “art lessons” and “sculpture lessons in Desert Hills” thinking maybe somebody is using them for an art class. I see cars parked outside all the time, 5 or 6 at least.
I haven’t found that house yet, but I found an artist by the name of Walter Rezcek who happens to live in my area. I went into his online gallery and found this fountain. My dad had one exactly like it. I never knew where he got it, and had never seen one like it before. This must be where dad got the fountain though, or at least Walter designed it and sold it a nursery or something and dad bought it.
I have never seen this design anywhere else, right down to the wave style bowls and the kid riding the dolphin at the top. I had this fountain in my front yard for a long time after my folks moved to Oregon. I took it up to them after they got settled. It stayed with the house after dad passed a few years ago, but I’ve always regretted not packing it up and bringing it back. I brought everything else back, including his tractor, but just didn’t have the space for the fountain.
So, now I’m hunting for another job, I was laid off in late September. I have been considering making a go at art. So maybe this is telling me it’s time. I’m going to paint now.
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I told KLM that just after I read his story with the Oregon link, I talked to the service guy at the local car shop who told me my new engine for our Mazda–which was blown out from the flood related to Tropical Storm Isaac–was en route from Oregon. KLM then related a long list of synchros with Oregon that he has recently experienced himself. He hopes to move there.
Last week, I received an email from Bernard Beitman, a visiting professor of psychiatry at the University of Virginia who is writing a book on coincidences/synchronicities. He’s working on a chapter on “idea coincidences.” Here’s what he wrote in his book:
Some idea coincidences can be remarkable useful. We offered this statement to our research participants:
“In a desperate search for information, the information amazingly shows up.”
Eighteen percent said “often.” Less rarely than songs or unimportant ideas , intense focus on a specific need for information aids that information to show up in an “amazing”, unexpected way.”
Libraries provide excellent opportunities for much needed information to suddenly show up. The experience became common enough for author Arthur Koestler to name this coincidence category the library angel.
Sometimes the needed book falls off the shelf onto the floor or even into the seeker’s hands. Other times non-systematic searching yields results where systematic searching had failed. Koester quoted a report by Dame Rebecca West while checking up on a certain episode in the Nuremberg Nazi war crimes trials. To her dismay she found that the abstracts of the proceedings had been catalogued under arbitrary headings in multiple volumes stored on many shelves. After searching for hours she asked a librarian for help. As she did, she put her hand on one volume, took it out and carelessly opened it. She had found the right page. (Koestler, et al The Challenges of Chance, p. 162)”
The Internet, this huge storehouse of information, this library on steroids, provides increasingly more opportunities for library angels to perform their tricks.
Then Bernard asked if I had any good stories about the library angel and the Internet.
This happens to me so frequently with the Internet that I take it for granted. I can’t think of specific incidents, but I do recall a bookstore angel event that resonated for a number of years. Borders Books, back in the 1990s:
I was browsing the new age section, looking for something different to read. This was a dark period for me. We had just put my mother in an Alzheimer’s facility and my dad, who had Parkinson’s, had moved in with us. We also had a young daughter, worked out of our home, and felt pretty frazzled. At any rate, the perfect book literally fell at my feet – Carol Bowman’s Children’s Past Lives.
The book, which I read in a couple of days, was fantastic and I contacted Carol afterward. We subsequently became friends and I recommended her to my agent for her next book, Return from Heaven. The following year, we met in her hometown. By then, my dad read her book, too. He was never a believer in reincarnation and had no religious or spiritual beliefs about the continuation of the soul. He was impressed with her book and I think that’s when his worldview/belief system about the continuation of life began to change.
Skip ahead to 2005. My dad, now nearly 93, confined to a wheelchair, was in an assisted living facility in Georgia, where my sister was head of nursing. I had gone to visit him and had a DVD Carol sent me on the James Leinenger case, probably the most convincing case for reincarnation in the Western world. Carol had been on 20/20 with the Leinengers and they talked about the young boy’s fascination with airplanes, his knowledge of WWII planes, and his possible past life as a WWII pilot.
At the end of it, tears rolled down my dad’s cheeks. “That’s the most convincing thing I’ve ever heard about reincarnation.”
We talked about the Leinenger case for awhile afterward and I told him about my own past life memories – Edinburgh, Ecuador, Bolivia, various dreams and experiences I’d had that convinced me we live many lives. I explained that within five minutes of meeting Rob, I knew we would be married, that we’d been together many times before. It was one of those deep and thought-provoking discussions you have with a loved one that remains vivid in memory, a turning point for both of you.
Three or four months later, he passed on. I think the Leinenger story helped him to release his hold on life. And it all started with that library angel at Borders Books. If Carol;s book hadn’t fallen at my feet, I would not have had that DVD to share with him. It made the difference for him.
Bernard is looking for other library angel stories for his book. Anyone have one they would like to contribute?