The other day I drove about ten miles south to get my hair cut by the woman who has been cutting my hair for, oh, about 20 years. I was asking for a synchro, you know, in a general sense. Hey, universe, let’s have a synchro. Like that.
When I see Gayle, we touch base, as women do, about who is doing what, where our lives are taking us, the usual stuff women talk about in hair salons. In the past 7 years, since Uranus has been in Gayle’s sun sign (Pisces), she has experienced a lot of sudden, unexpected events, right in line with Uranus’s energy. Her husband died of kidney failure, her son died of a drug overdose, her daughter got married and had a couple of kids, she has moved a number of times, she has fallen in and out of love, and now she’s engaged.
She used to be an ardent Christian/Born Again, now she is more open to the kind of stuff that interests me. Rob often wonders why I drive to the next town for a haircut, when there are plenty of hair salons where we live. But Rob, who shaves his head, can’t understand what it is that moves women to seek out stylists who are also artists. And Gayle is definitely an artist.
One day while sitting in her chair, I had a vivid impression of her as some sort of hair stylist in Atlantis, where the art of cutting, dyeing, styling, was highly regarded. I mentioned my impression to her and she sort of laughed. “You really believe Atlantis existed, Trish?”
Well, yes, I said, and explained why I believed it.
During my last visit, she asked if I believed in spirit contact. I told her I did and she looked relieved. Then she leaned forward and spoke in a softer voice. “I think my dead son visited me,” she said.
One night shortly after her son had died, after her husband was already gone, she felt someone sit at the edge of her bed. She was alone in her condo, the depression on the mattress was enough to startle her. Then her fear evaporated. “I know it was my son. I don’t remember what he said, but I felt it was him, letting me know he’s okay, that he didn’t die because of something I did or didn’t do.”
“I’m sure it was him,” I told her. “This kind of thing happens more often than we realize.” We talked about that for awhile, the many ways that spirit might try to communicate with us. Gayle felt comforted by this visitation and by our discussion of it.
On the way home, I was thinking that I hadn’t experienced any synchros and was starting to feel sort of bummed out about it, like maybe I was way off track on the course of things generally. Then I realized that Gayle’s story fit the bill. I had asked for a synchro – and gotten it, through Gayle’s story. Ask. That’s where it begins. Ask and remain open to whatever comes your way.















